Meri observation ke mutabiq, beta male hona gaali nahi hoti. Ye bas aik stage hota hai jahan insaan apni power aur direction clear nahi kar paata. Ye cheez temporary bhi ho sakti hai. Kuch signs jo aksar beta male mein dekhe jaate hain: - Har baat mein doosron ko khush rakhne ki koshish karna, khud ko ignore kar dena. - Apni baat clear taur par na keh pana, especially jab “no” kehna zaroori ho. - Decision lene mein hesitation aur self-doubt. - Strong logon se impress hone ki koshish aur unki validation chahna. - Conflict se bachna, chahe apna nuqsan hi kyun na ho. - Apni worth ko kam samajhna aur khud par kaam delay karte rehna. - Zyada emotions par chalna, kam logic use karna. Ye sab cheezein permanent nahi hotin. Awareness aajaye to banda discipline, self-respect aur responsibility ke zariye khud ko better version mein change kar sakta hai.

Maine notice kiya hai ke jab insaan apni life par control lose karne lagta hai, to uski energy bhi low ho jaati hai. Isay low alpha energy kaha ja sakta hai — aur yeh kisi ke sath bhi ho sakti hai. Kuch common signs jo aksar samne aate hain: - Har baat par overthinking aur khud par doubt rehna. - Decisions lene se pehle hamesha doosron ki approval ka wait karna. - Kaam pata hota hai lekin phir bhi delay hota rehta hai. - Responsibility lene ke bajaye excuses banana asaan lagta hai. - Apni boundaries clear na rakh pana. - Comfort zone mein rehna aur risk lene se darr lagna. - Feelings mein aa kar react karna, soch samajh kar act na kar pana. Yeh sab signs weak honay ka proof nahi hain, balkay yeh signal hain ke khud par kaam karne ki zaroorat hai.

Career ki selection score se nahi hoti,career ki selection soch, clarity aur action se hoti hai. Agar aap confused hain ke apni career ki selection kaise karni hai,aur aapko abhi tak clarity feel nahi hoti,to yeh aap ki ghalti nahi hai. Aksar humein mentors nahi milte University mein proper guidance nahi di jaati.Aur agar di bhi jaati hai, to woh itni superficial hoti haike asal problem kabhi address hi nahi hoti. Parents kehte hain: “Bahir chalay jao.”Rishtedaar kehte hain: “Doctor ban jao.”Koi kehta hai: “Engineer bano.”Aur har shakhs aapko ek nayi direction de deta hai. Itni zyada directions milti hainke insaan confusion mein phans jata hai.Aur phir saari zindagi yeh sochta rehta hai: “Main apni career ki shuruat kahaan se karoon?” Clarity ka na milna aapki kamzori nahi,yeh is system ki nakami haijo humein career choose karna sikhata hi nahi. Career ka faisla tab hota haijab insaan khud ko samajhta hai,experiment karta hai,aur action lena shuru karta hai.

Assalam o Alaikum everyone! I hope you all are doing well. This is my first post. It's been some days I joined Skool but because of some family committments I could not start and post anything. My name is Syed Sajid Ali, and I am a student of ACCA. Doing a remote Job to support my family and studies, but I am stuck at 70,000 PKR per month. I need help from you all to guide me how I can make my first $500 or $1000. Guide me in anyway you can, if you have any projects please do share them. I have attached my resume here, you can check. Also, I wanna say thank you to Haroon Bhai for creating this community, May Allah SWT bless you and reward you for this in both worlds.

Better version ban’na ka matlab perfect hona nahi hota, balkay har din thora sa behtar banna hota hai soch mein, aadaton mein aur actions mein. Kuch simple steps jo real change laate hain: - Apne aap ko samajhna seekheinApni weaknesses aur mistakes accept karna growth ka pehla step hota hai. - Daily choti choti habits build kareinJaldi uthna, namaz ki pabandi, thora sa parhna yeh sab small cheezein mil kar big change laati hain. - Comfort zone se bahar nikleinJo cheez mushkil lagay, aksar wahi aapko strong banati hai. - Discipline > MotivationMotivation aata jata rehta hai, lekin discipline aapko continue rakhata hai. - Apni company improve kareinJin logon ke saath rehte ho, unka asar zaroor hota hai positive log choose karein. - Spiritual connection strong kareinAllah se connection insan ko andar se strong aur calm bana deta hai.