- Talking over people - Rambling - Speaking in a condescending tone - Always needing to be right These are all things that I've done at some point in my life. What about you? It wasn't because I was a bad person, but because we are ALL taught communication habits within our households and communities. Some of those habits actually stifle connection rather than build it. Not many of us take the time or self-awareness to really develop better communication styles or seek tools to help us break the pattern. Here are some poor communication habits that could be pushing people away, and how to fix them through repetition. Which one resonates with you or someone you love?