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It's Fearless Friday! What Are You Doing To Face Your Fears?
What fear are you hanging on to, and what is it costing you? What area of your life do you need to purge the fear? It's Fearless Friday, go into the weekend strong knowing you are facing your fears head on. The only way to the other side of your fears is through. There's no other way. Post what fears a are blocking you or what you've done or are doing to overcome a fear and what you've gained in doing so. You've Got this! Be Remarkable!
It's Fearless Friday! What Are You Doing To Face Your Fears?
2 likes • May '25
Fear is just a feeling meant to stop us from dying, pretty useful! I still feel fear, but it's not the monster it once was. It's a helpful tool from the right perspective, but realize that you are fully capable of ignoring it completely, or alternatively, puffing it up into something that completely controls you unreasonably. I know my limits, and I avoid doing stupid things - but I wouldn't call it "fear" per se, because I understand it now.
1 like • May '25
@Dwayne Klassen What's your fear, Dwayne?
2 likes • May '25
Went to Beerfest yesterday, just working today
Dating Is Brutal Now
Hey all, I'm wondering if any of you are dating, and what your experience has been? I'm not married, so I've been dating on and off for more than a decade, and it is a super difficult environment now. Here's a few points: - Online dating is pretty much crickets, for me and friends I know - It is completely unacceptable now to approach women at bars etc., especially strangers. - You're not allowed to date people at work, approach at the gym, or in public really (school I imagine as well). - Women have become hugely guarded compared to even 10 years ago - It is no longer ok to make any woman even remotely uncomfortable, and doing so constitutes harassment - I've asked friends to introduce me to people and no one knows any single women. I'm working on expanding my circle of friends but it's tough - They all have boyfriends somehow, despite so many guys being single I'm 41, so it's not a huge deal for me - I'm kind of over it, and maybe I'm just too old for this - but I'd still like to find someone. It honestly feels impossible now! And making any active attempt at all makes me feel like a huge skeezball, so I just have to sit around waiting for someone to show interest, which is extremely rare, then I also need to be interested in them. It's pretty apparent that making any attempt is not worth it at this point. It's like everyone has gone out of their way to create a cultural dynamic that makes all this extremely hard.
0 likes • Mar '25
@Dwayne Klassen This is all true. Honestly, the problem is twofold, a) No one seems interested, either in person or online. This could be a personal failing, but I think I'm a pretty good catch TBH, although this could be delusional. b) I really am not interested in most women. The only thing that seems to get my attention is looks (I try not to be shallow, but it is what it is), and that is not enough. I find most are not particularly intriguing, although it's hard to even get to know anyone let alone get to a point where I genuinely trust them and open up! I've been "sharpening the saw' for a decade, how sharp does it need to be exactly? No doubt this is harder now that I'm older, and male/female dynamics have changed drastically in the last decade. Luckily I'm not obsessed with finding a girl, but some company would be nice. The amount of effort it takes now is unreal! Moreover, I am no longer interested in the time/expense of going out all the time and 'being the life of the party". So, what's a guy to do?
0 likes • May '25
I don't kill it with the ladies either these days, but dude, listen to this: "I hate women, their nature, they are untrustworthy, and they are disloyal, and I only need them for sexual intimacy,"... if that is your attitude and you only use women as sexual objects, are you surprised they don't like you? You don't give a shit about them! Also, sex is not the big deal you're making it out to be, maybe you should introspect a bit and determine if your attitude is serving you or OTHERS.
The Tuesday Question: What Form Of Sedation Is Your Escape?
Brothers, it’s time to get real. No masks. No B.S. What are you using to numb the discomfort? Is it alcohol? Porn? Overworking? Social media? Video games? Weed? Junk food? Maybe it’s something more subtle—procrastination, avoidance, or staying in a relationship that’s killing your spirit. Here’s the truth: Every form of sedation is a prison disguised as relief. It keeps you small. It robs you of your power. It stops you from becoming the man you KNOW you are meant to be. So today, we’re calling it out. Drop the excuses, drop the shame—just own it. When you face it, you can break free from it. What’s your sedation? And what’s it costing you? Drop your truth in the comments. Let’s go deep. You've got this! Be Remarkable!
The Tuesday Question: What Form Of Sedation Is Your Escape?
2 likes • Mar '25
Cigs
Morning Alarm
I've always had trouble getting up in the morning. It's improved drastically over the years, but is still an issue. I hit snooze for hours even with my phone across the hall, and I'm generally too sleepy to show a lot of discipline in this regard. This wouldn't be a big issue, but I am majorly busy and need to train myself to get up early so I can get done all the shit I've promised myself. Wonder if anyone else has had this issue, and what you suggest? Ideally, I want to be awake at 5am, but I just 'nope out' in the morning and go back to bed. Also, I don't sleep well, so any tips there would be helpful too. Thanks!
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Im into spirituality, business, working out and volunteering.

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