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What “Moving Without Maps” Actually Points To
I often talk here about navigating without maps in these times. Underneath that is something more specific. It’s what happens when your usual sense of orientation drops. Not just the absence of a plan. The absence of the feeling that tells you how to move. What to trust. How to read what’s in front of you. When that goes, most people reach for a map. Old ones. Or someone else’s. But that’s exactly the moment the phrase points to. Not having a map isn’t the challenge. Losing orientation is. And what begins to form in its place when you stay with it isn’t another map. It’s a different way of orienting altogether. That distinction matters. Because the work isn’t learning to navigate without a map. It’s learning to trust a different kind of knowing.
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Dave, You've mentioned "maps" frequently. What exactly do you mean by the term. I'm feeling a bit dense and could use some help.
The background hum
There’s something in the air right now. Not dramatic. Not even that obvious most of the time. But if you slow down a bit, you can feel it. A kind of low-level pressure. Things are shifting—costs, geopolitics, the general sense that the ground isn’t as steady as it used to be. Most of us just carry on. We adjust. It becomes normal pretty quickly. But underneath… I notice it takes a bit more energy to stay steady. To not get pulled into reaction. To make sense of what’s actually going on. It’s subtle, but it’s there. And the instinct—especially if you’re used to being capable, on top of things—is to tighten up a bit. Get clearer. Get ahead of it. Try to regain some control. Sometimes that works. But sometimes it just adds more pressure to something that’s already carrying a lot. What feels more useful right now is simpler. Just paying attention to how you’re relating to all of this. Where you’re gripping. Where you’re bracing. Where you’re trying to force clarity that isn’t really there yet. No big move needed. Just noticing. What’s become “normal” for you lately that, not long ago, wouldn’t have been?
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Pain in my body that has resulted in several surgeries. When a doctor asks where my pain level is on a scale of 1-10, I honestly am unable to quantify it. When you're in constant pain, it fades into the background. I've learned that the emotion of acceptance has been very helpful - it's a place of possibility and different from resignation.
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@Dave Schoof I've found that practicing acceptance creates a kind of shield against the pain. I'm not perfect at it, but when I recognize that frustration, resentment, anger, or disappointment show up, I ask myself what is the message of each emotion (for example, frustration's message is something important to me isn't resolved). As Julio Olalla says, "We're not responsible for our emotions; we fall into them. We are responsible for what we do with them, once we recognize we're in them." I ask myself, "Am I able to resolve what is frustrating me?" If yes, then I work towards resolution. If no, then acceptance is my chosen emotion. It's taken me years of practice, but that's helped me immensely.
A question to start.
What’s the terrain you’re currently navigating that your usual maps aren’t helping with? I’ll go first. Right now I’m sitting with the gap between how clear the work feels internally and how patient I need to be with letting it find its people. The temptation is to push to build more, explain more, reach more. What I keep coming back to is trusting what’s actually here. Your turn. No particular format. Just what’s honestly true right now. — Dave
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At 76 years of age, I've worked in several jobs, but never had one like the last 30 years of being a coach. I love coaching and helping others discover, uncover, and live into the incredible possibilities they have for their lives that they often don't see. Because of recent health breakdowns, I've decided to "retire" from coaching, effective July 31 of this year. While I have plans of what I will do and who I will be, it's unexplored territory.
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Geoff Davis draws on unique gifts and broad experience to help others discover the infinite possibilities and overlooked richness of their own lives.

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