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ADHD Harmony™

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The real reason you struggle to finish what you start
"Jim doesn't apply himself." That's a real sentence from my elementary school reports. I found them a few years ago, while I was rebuilding my life after my burnout. Black on white: "Jim doesn't apply himself." "Jim is easily distracted." "Jim has potential, but." Here's the part that got me. I had no memory of any of it. But some part of me clearly did. Because I spent the next twenty years proving those sentences right. Starting things and abandoning them. Calling myself lazy. Collecting 30K worth of unfinished courses as evidence. And that's the realization I promised you on Friday: Every app, planner and course I ever bought was trying to change what I DO. But underneath what you do, something else is running that decides everything: the story of who you believe you are. Sentences installed by teachers, parents, bosses, a system that was never built for your brain. Most of them before you turned ten. You never chose them. You don't remember agreeing to them. And they've been quietly running your life ever since. Those sentences are where the daily stuff actually comes from. The procrastination. The overwhelm at a normal to-do list. The anxiety. The overthinking. The fear of being judged. You think you have a productivity problem. You have old beliefs with productivity symptoms. The difference between "I am lazy" and "I have a belief that says I'm lazy" is huge. One is a life sentence. The other is code you can rewrite. That is what makes this challenge differente. Not just productivity tips. Five days where we go underneath the behavior, find who you were before those sentences, and start closing the gap between who you are right now and who you're actually built to be. This is the work that changed my life. Not the apps. This. Last Friday, many of you shared your intention for this challenge. I read every single one, and most of them are versions of the same wish: to finally finish something, to stop fighting yourself.
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Curious, what color comes to mind when you think of ADHD Harmony?
Also let me know in the comments. Might use this info for a reband 😎 Thanks 🙏
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@Tracy Omara not keen on the word dosorder. we have super powers remember? :)
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@James Easter I think language is a whole can of worms where a lot of words can be seen as problematic!
🎂 I turned 29 today.
After many years of struggling, I rebuilt my life from scratch the last 5 years. Here's my birthday gift to you: 29 lessons, one for every year. 1. You were never broken. You've been running the wrong operating system your whole life. 2. It's not an attention deficit. You have plenty of attention. It just flows to what's interesting, not what's important. 3. Procrastination is almost never laziness. It's often emotional avoidance: fear of failing, fear of being judged, fear of what happens if it actually works. 4. Sometimes you call it procrastination, but it's protection. If you never fully try, a failure can never prove you're broken. 5. The difference between "I am lazy" and "I have a belief that says I'm lazy" is everything. One is a life sentence. The other is code you can rewrite. 6. You are not the voice in your head. You're the one who hears it. Don't fight it, don't believe it. Just stop giving it your attention. 7. You're not too sensitive. You're exactly as sensitive as a brain that feels everything at full volume. That same intensity is what makes fast change possible. 8. Anxiety lives in the future. Depression lives in the past. The only place you can change anything is right now. 9. Falling isn't the problem. Everyone falls. The only skill that matters is how fast you get back up. 10. Never miss two days in a row. One missed day is life happening. Two missed days is the start of a new identity. 11. Sleep is the first domino. Fix your sleep and willpower, focus and mood start fixing themselves. 12. If you can drink coffee at night and still fall asleep, that's not a superpower. It means you're chronically exhausted. 13. Movement isn't about fitness. It's about regulation. Thirty minutes of moving your body buys you hours of focus, for free. 14. Every workout is evidence that you can do hard things. You're not just training your body. You're training your self-image. 15. A sugary breakfast means your motivation is gone before lunch. Protein and healthy fats first. Boring advice that changes everything. 16. Cheap dopamine is borrowed energy. Scrolling, sugar, staying up late: you always pay it back tomorrow, with interest. 17. Willpower is a battery. Systems keep working when you're tired. Phone in another room beats "I won't check my phone" every time. 18. Your brain doesn't freeze on tasks. It freezes on unclear tasks. Shrink the first step until it takes one minute. 19. Starting is the hardest part, not the work itself. Once you're in, hyperfocus carries you. So engineer the start, not the whole task. 20. Clarity is not adding more. Clarity is selection plus subtraction. Pick two things that matter. Park the rest. 21. You can do anything, but you can't do everything. So decide. 22. If it's not an obvious yes, it's a no. Your future self will thank you for everything you declined. 23. Stop looking at the nouns, start looking at the verbs. Hobbies change every few weeks. The drive underneath them, creating, solving, connecting, has been the same since you were a kid. That's your compass. 24. You're not scattered. You're a polymath. Your weird mix of interests isn't the problem to fix. It's the formula. 25. Being good at something is not the same as being built for it. Good is the enemy of great. 26. You can't out-affirm an old story about yourself. You can only out-evidence it. Every small action is a vote for who you're becoming. 27. Success feels unsafe when it doesn't match your self-image. That's why you blow things up right before the breakthrough. Change the self-image and the sabotage stops. 28. You become the average of the five people closest to you. Find the ones playing the long game. Let go of the ones who keep you small. 29. It all works from the inside out. Your thoughts become things, and your world is a mirror of your inner state. Change who you believe you are, and your life has no choice but to reorganize itself to match.
🎂 I turned 29 today.
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Happy birthday. 24. when all interests fall into place naturally it feels wonderful.
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nice format by the way!
New visual concepts, would love your feedback
Edit: I also refined the existing branding visuals for Skool (first image here). They also turned out quiet nice. A few days ago I asked which color you think of when you think of ADHD Harmony. Based on the feedback the team explored two directions. Would love to hear which one you prefer and why. Thanks!
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New visual concepts, would love your feedback
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To me the lime (or teal as a second choice) because they have something fresher and more relaxing. However the black background (I know matches your tech settings and preferences) I find harder to cope with. I find orage a very masculine colour and quite forceful. Having worked in Branding for quite some time, black I would keep for a photographic website and organe I would stay clear off. Orange is not relaxing. But this is a personal opinion. If you change colours then the AI imagery may have to be updated too. This is more work for you. At the end of the day, poll or not, This is your branding, your work and it needs to feel right. do not attempt to pick something that is just general or popular opinion. This is about alignment. Yours! We can only comment. You decide. Watch for the rabbit hole that may make this a much bigger task than it is :) Your work is amazing, Branding grows with you. Update as and when and only if you think you need to change it.
Using Miro whiteboards for idea creation
I have just created my first board. I remember Jim mentioning Miro as a helpful tool and I have barely scartched the surface, Ia m already amazed. I don't think I will ever work like I used to! Anyway, could anyone give me tips they are discovered, especially visual elements I can include to make this work for me? I am doing a research project, trip planning and book proposal, all linked to the same topic and project. I would love to hear about your experience, even if it has nothing in common with mine. Thanks in advance.
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@Teri Connolly I can't access that. I was too busy completing teh course to take part and now I am not on continuation
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@Renee Kers probably will have to do that....
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