Make sure to start this new week fresh with a whole new perspective on your tendency to please people, and not lead people... https://www.skool.com/surinaj-9674/classroom/84c33aae?md=60837bab74d64845bb8c7077cd50301e

Doreen used the word "donker gat." Dark hole. That is not a metaphor. That is someone telling you exactly where they were in their business. Desperate, hiding, ready to give up. She did not know how to respond to a customer. Not a strategy problem. Not a mindset block. A real moment, a real person waiting, and she did not know what to say. That is the kind of stuck that makes you question everything. She brought it to Ava. They worked through the message together. She sent it. Her first online sale in the digital space followed. "Today I feel much lighter." And she is staying positive and moving forward. That is what Ava is for. Not the grand transformation you plan for. The Tuesday afternoon moment when you do not know what to type and the window is closing and you need someone to think with you right now. She got out of the dark place one message at a time. That is the proof. Drop a 🪞 below if Ava has shown up for you in a moment like this. Big or small. We celebrate every shift! PS: Remember tonight's Masterclass REGISTER HERE: https://www.surinaj.com/ownit THURSDAY 4 JUNE 5pm- link in Calendar OWN IT!

Week 2. We are back. And this week we are going somewhere that takes a little more courage than last week. We are talking about the past. Not to revisit it. Not to process it again. Not to give it more of your time than it has already taken. But to look it in the eye and say — you do not get to make today's decisions anymore. Here is what I know from my own life and from years of working with people's potential. The past is sneaky. It does not show up as a memory. It shows up as a hesitation. A pattern. A reason that feels completely logical for why you cannot, should not, are not ready to move forward. It shows up as autopilot. And most of the time you do not even realise it is the past talking. You just think that is who you are. It is not who you are. It is where you have been. Those are not the same thing. This week I am choosing to BE someone who stops letting their past make today's decisions. And I want you to do something bold with me right now. Not tomorrow. Right now. Name it below. The one thing your past keeps telling you that you are still letting influence your decisions today. One sentence. Put it in the comments and claim it out loud. Because you cannot take back ground you have not first named. If you battle to get to is, ask Ava to show you what is that one belief that is still making decisions for you from your past! NO MORE. Drop it below.

...your history being your ceiling? Because that is exactly what is happening every time you say "I have tried before and it did not work" — and then stop there. Think about what that sentence is actually costing you. This is a compounded cost of every decision that got quietly handed over to a version of you that no longer exists. A version that had less clarity, less tools, less courage than the person sitting here today. You tried. It did not work the way you hoped. And your brain filed that experience away as permanent truth about what you are capable of. It is not truth. It is data. Old data. From a season that is over. The real price of being okay with this is not just staying stuck. It is watching someone else do the very thing you talked yourself out of — and knowing deep down that could have been you. That should have been you. If only you had not let the past cast the deciding vote. So here is what I want you to do right now. Name the one thing you stopped pursuing because of a past result. Then write next to it the one action — the smallest possible action — you could take today that would prove to your brain that this time is different. Not a plan. Not a goal. One action. Today. Drop it below. Let this community witness you choose differently.