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Remember to Exhale
Remember to exhale. We talk a lot about breathing when we ride. When to breathe. How deeply to breathe. How many counts to inhale and how many to exhale. For something our bodies do naturally, we've managed to make it surprisingly complicated. What if we made it simpler? I say remember to exhale. Your body won't forget to inhale. But.... I know you don't need one more thing to think about while you're riding. So, what if you connected the idea to exhale to something meaningful? Exhale as you ask for a downward transition. Exhale as you halt. Exhale when your horse offers a moment of softness. Let the exhale become part of those moments. Something your brain begins to associate with slowing down, softening, and finding balance. We often talk about horses being mirrors of ourselves. If our horses are so sensitive to our emotions, our tension, our energy, and the smallest changes in our bodies, why wouldn't they respond to the changes that come with our breathing? Breathing is an important part of nervous system regulation. And while our horses may not literally match every breath we take, they can certainly feel the changes in our bodies when we stop holding our breath and begin to relax. Our muscles soften. Our movement changes. Our communication becomes a little less guarded. Maybe that gives our horses an opportunity to soften, too. The beautiful thing about connecting an exhale to an action is that, with repetition, we don't have to keep reminding ourselves. The action itself becomes the reminder. A downward transition becomes more than a change of gait. It's an opportunity for both of you to reorganize, rebalance, and find a little more ease. Riders spend so much time trying to develop better habits in their horses. This is one of the simplest habits you can develop for yourself. Not a complicated breathing exercise. JUST REMEMBER TO EXHALE. And see what happens when you give both yourself and your horse a little room to breathe. Pic of me reminding myself to exhale while I'm at the gym and still have a podcast to edit 😉💙
Remember to Exhale
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Thank you for this reminder! I caught myself holding my breath during my last ride.
Happy Sunday Everyone!
Let's welcome our newest members @Chris Gregory @Peggy Hoyt @Charlotte Romy @Evelyn Wei @Erin Conley . Share a picture of your amazing horse(s) and let us know why you joined the community! I'd also love to know how I can support you through the community in your equestrian endeavors. Go 👇😊
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Hello everyone! I’m Erin and I own a 12-year-old Quarter Horse named Cowboy. I joined this community for advice and inspiration about how to build the best relationship possible with my horse. Cowboy’s previous owner did nothing with him and kept him in a pasture for 5 years. I bought him and I’m retraining him (or trying to) to ride, but I’m having mixed results so far. He is a sweet boy, but he does not want to work and isn’t fond of riding. It doesn’t help that he is overweight due to inactivity for so long. I know I have to get better as a rider for him as well. I’ve only lightly ridden my elderly TB the last few years, so I’m definitely out of practice. Ultimately, I want Cowboy to be happy and enjoy the time we spend together. I know it will take time, and I’m not in any rush, but I’m hoping I’ll get some ideas here to try to build a strong bond between us.
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Erin Conley
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Owned by one dog, four cats, one ferret, and a very large dun QH named Cowboy.

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Joined Oct 3, 2026
Pendleton, NY