@Kristine Owen Wood these are GREAT questions! I too am not a parent, so I can't speak personally on that aspect, but @Aimee Jones I think if you feel less stressed about deferring the marathon to next year, that may help you lean towards one decision. :) Again, not a parent so can't share from that perspective, but I do want to emphasize that even if you decide to do the marathon as planned, that is NOT being selfish! You made a commitment to yourself and have been working towards that for a long time. I think either way you choose, you are showing up positively not just for your son, but for you. ❤️