Last night I posted a video about how I believe Weaponized Incompetence is an over-used somewhat often in-accurate term as I think often times we need to improve the way we are articulating our conversations about these things. I made a follow up video to have some nuanced conversation that I think is perfect for discourse in this community. I think the impact of these kinds of actions is really heavy for a lot of the women and many felt unseen in my analysis of the use of the word as it disregarded their experience of continued invalidation of invisible labor. This community is meant for us to come to the table and have tough conversations in here and be a safe space for people to have debate and understanding of each other.

I made this video to both share where we are in our journey of marriage and share something we are really excited about. The exercise I reference is the core emotion wheel, link to that training module in comment.

Every home that is struggling with equality of invisible labor has a conversation they are struggling with that takes on different flavors, which one are you struggling with the most?

Hearing for first time? Have the book, gathering dust? Started, stopped Read a fair amount, haven’t implemented cards Had 1 talk with cards, and never revisited? Revisiting consistently

Form the COre EMotion Wheel: Anger SHame GUilt Fear Sad Lonely Hurt Joy