🌑 The new moon is for planting and tending the seeds of desire. How are you tending what’s growing slowly? How are you staying in relationship with it even as the excitement fades? And what new seeds are you planting? In the garden, we often plant a dozen seeds for one to germinate. What are you planting this new moon?

Hey everyone 👋 One thing many of us weren’t taught growing up? How to talk honestly about sex especially what Better Sex really means. Better sex isn’t just about physical techniques it’s about communication, emotional safety, pleasure, trust, and understanding our own bodies and desires. So I wanted to open a gentle, respectful space for us to explore: - What does “better sex” mean to you personally? - What’s one thing you wish you’d learned earlier about intimacy or pleasure? - What helps you feel safe and connected in a sexual relationship? No shame, no pressure just real talk from people who care about growing in this area of life. You’re welcome to read, reflect, or share whatever feels right for you. Let’s keep it supportive, inclusive, and open hearted 💬✨ Looking forward to hearing your thoughts.

Welcome in — I’m really glad you’re here! To get the conversation going, I’d love to hear a little about you: - Where are you joining from? - One fun fact about you (keep it light — there’s no pressure to be deep) - What brought you here? A sentence or two is plenty. And if today is a listening day, that’s okay too. You’re welcome to read along and jump in when you’re ready. I’ll start us off in the comments. — Deborah 💛

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