How do you heal from a breakup?

Because I talk openly about sex and relationships, I hold a pretty high bar for who I let into my community. Not in a gatekeeping way. In a care way. I’ve learned that when the topic is vulnerable, intimate, and personal, psychological safety matters more than volume. I want people to be able to ask real questions without getting shut down by bravado, posturing, or performative “edginess.” I’ve also noticed that insecurity often shows up as brash talk, especially around sex. So I’m curious how others handle this. If someone wants to join your community and it feels like a mismatch, do you: decline or delete without follow up check in and clearly name the behavioral expectations of the space redirect them to content so they can learn the tone first Or something else entirely? I’m especially interested in hearing how you balance inclusivity with maintaining a respectful, practice based space. Thank you in advance. I’m always learning how to lead these rooms well.

I’m kinda triggered. I feel like I don’t have anyone to talk to. Probably isn’t even the right place for me to say this here… But I have made a lot of friends here. Guess I feel pretty lonely today. Wish they would celebrate me. Acknowledge how hard I’ve worked and am working. Never fuckin once have I even gotten a congratulations from them about my successes in life. They don’t care about my dreams. I’m working so hard to make my dream come true. And I feel like I’m so close to pulling it off. I guess sometimes you just gotta be there for yourself.

Business is hard. Fun things are easy. So if u make business fun, Business becomes easy. WDYT?