Hey everyone 👋 It is Friday the 13th, but I’m not seeing any bad luck around here, just a lot of momentum. I’m ready to read through what you moved the finish line this week. Whether you closed a big deal or finally conquered a task that’s been haunted by "bad luck," let’s hear it. Drop your gains below 👇

So, what happens to our inner critic when we practice radical Self-ACTivation? They get a chance to experience something they probably don’t remember: zero pressure. They’re probably not going to enjoy the experience at first, and that’s ok. What if our inner critics could experience our non-judgmental, non-violent, accepting, trusting love? What would change for them? What could be possible for our ‘outer’ critics, if we treated them the same way? If we didn’t need them to be different from how they were being in that moment? If we could source the treatment we want within our Selves, and from the Higher Self that needs nothing from us? These are questions I sometimes sit in, sometimes dance with, every day. I notice my inner critic finding peace and solace, not judgment and rejection, these days, and it is an uncomfortable experience for her. I often quote the incredible formula I learned from Stella Eisenstein: Attention + Allowing = Miracles In our intimate community, we have participated in both Attention and Allowing challenges. In these challenges, we check in daily with contemplations like: 💭 What did I specifically observe? 💭 What wisdom (if any) came up that I can make note of? 💭 What was my biggest takeaway about my experience today? 💭 When did I notice myself resisting what wasn't according to my plans today? 💭 What wisdom did I gain from either my resistance or allowing? What could change for the world if just a few of us sat in these contemplations of curiosity, together? What would change for your team if you brought this curiosity to your meetings and encounters, replacing the fear-inducing performance drive of business as usual? If you long to build a culture and environment where these kinds of conversations, whether with yourself or with others, are common occurrences, know that you are in good company. In gratitude, Deborah.

“Ok, Deborah, I’ll bite. How do I close the gap between who I’m being and who I’m portraying myself to be?” So glad you asked. As a quick recap: the incongruency gap is what makes people promise the moon and stars and wince at bringing the groceries. You’ve been that person, you’ve also dealt with that person. Zero judgment. This is a natural phase in our growth and development as sovereign beings. And actually, zero judgment is where you start. Radical Self-ACTivation is the practice of 360 degree Self-Acceptance, Self-Compassion, and Self-Trust (ACT). It’s radical because it flies in the face of many, many practices common in ‘business as usual’. In fact, as simple as it is, the societal environment we are immersed in can make it look extreme. So, to close the gap between who you are being and who you want to be, want to be who you are being. No, this is not semantics. This is the secret few speak about in human development spaces. Our performance- and profit-driven ‘business as usual’ world poopoos on truly accepting ourselves. We’re encouraged to focus on outcomes and strive to make whatever changes necessary to be able to meet those expected outcomes. This keeps us in fear, because, have you seen life? How likely is it that you can create expected outcomes you made up in your head without valiant effort to control external conditions? It’s not going to happen. So then you’re shamed into believing that it’s a bad thing that you can’t control your life. You’re encouraged to push harder, set SMART goals, develop greater discipline. Society applauds feats of sheer willpower where humans push past their apparent physical limits to achieve the “impossible”. You literally are conditioned to believe that not listening to your body, putting ‘mind over matter’ and destroying our connection to natural safeguards – communicated limits and boundaries – is the goal. NO. Global villagers do not think this way. We Accept each and every part of ourselves as they present in each moment.

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Want to know my biggest pain about Black history month? I don’t know that we’re really getting the most important lesson Black history taught us: The game is rigged. Don’t try to win in it, get out and create your own game. One that is genuinely ‘profitable’ in that it promotes the well being of all life on Earth. One that is life-affirming. THAT is the most important lesson Black history taught us. And yet, when I boldly shared alternatives to the rigged game, some responses I receive: “I know I live in a capitalistic country, and I'm getting a piece of the pie.” “Poor can't help poor. Let's just be real.” “I'm not a feely, kumbaya-let's-come-together type of person.” “I need some money, and then I can do those other things for the collective good.” Now, I’m going to do my best to address this with care, because these voices are also my voices. There is no voice outside of me that I haven’t also heard within. I am familiar with these voices. I see them as old acquaintances. Most people would agree with them. I will never say that they express an invalid perspective. I will say that these perspectives, while valid and understandable, are missing the lesson. They speak from inside of the story that is collapsing. Global village campus exists to help purpose-driven leaders find their footing in the space between stories. When they do, they expand options for everyone. That is what Black history teaches us. As global villagers, we acknowledge what is, while never allowing what is to determine how we show up or where we focus our attention. We don’t look for ways to “get a piece of the pie” in a dying story. We don’t sit in the illusion that more money is what we need to be of greatest service. We get the lesson Black history is teaching us. We are writing the rules of our own game. Rules that are equitable and life-sustaining. Rules that our descendants will thank us for. Rules that recognize more than one form of capital: social, experiential, intellectual, cultural, material and most important: living and spiritual capital.