If you’re here, chances are you’ve felt it before. That quiet sense of not quite fitting the mold. That nudge to take a different path, even when it doesn’t make sense to everyone else. That tension between what’s expected of us and what we feel God calling us toward. This space, Right Here, exists for that exact reason. This isn’t a place to impress anyone. It's not about cliche motivation or pretending we have it all figured out. It’s a room for men who think differently. Who feel early. Who know what they should do, but don’t want to walk it alone. Here’s how we keep this space solid: • We’re honest • We’re respectful • We’re present • We speak from our own experience • We leave people better than we found them Let’s get this started 👇 Introduce yourself below: 1. Where you’re from 2. What made you realize you might be a “black sheep” 3. What season of life or decision you’re currently navigating No pressure to overshare. Just be real. This community will only be as powerful as we choose to make it. Glad we’re here. We’re not early. We’re not late. We’re right on time. Let’s walk this road together. 🤝

Why do we eat enough, yet still feel undernourished? Most people are not under eating. They are under nourishing. You can hit calories, feel full, and still walk around tired, foggy, or craving more food an hour later. That is usually not a willpower issue. It is a food quality issue. The body is getting energy, but not getting what it actually needs to function well. Here is the hope. Your body responds quickly when it is given real inputs. Scripture reminds us where food is supposed to come from. “He makes grass grow for the cattle, and plants for people to cultivate, bringing forth food from the earth.” Psalm 104:14 NIV That verse matters because it points to something simple. Food was created, not engineered. Grown, not assembled. When food stays closer to its natural state, the body knows how to use it. Here is the reframe. Living food gives signals, not just calories. Animal based foods provide complete proteins, bioavailable minerals, and fats that support hormones, brain function, and muscle repair. Fruit provides easily digestible carbohydrates, potassium, vitamin C, and hydration that support energy, digestion, and recovery. These foods give the body what it recognizes, so it does not have to work overtime to extract nutrients. Ultra processed foods do the opposite. They ask the body to do more work with less payoff. That is why people can eat a lot and still feel unsatisfied. The body keeps asking for nutrients it never received. So carry this question into today. Does this food support my body, or just keep me busy eating? Here is today’s active stillness challenge. Take five quiet minutes. No phone. No stimulation. Sit comfortably and breathe slowly. Ask God one practical question. “How can I simplify my food today to better support my health?” Then act on the first clear idea that comes to mind. After that stillness, move with intention. Choose one. Build one meal today around quality animal protein and fruit. Or take a ten minute walk after a meal to improve blood sugar control and digestion.

A clear, grounded look at income, work, and fulfillment. It’s time to get deep. Most people don’t stay in jobs because they love them. They stay because it feels safe. That was me. I had a long, respected, 20 years career. VP role. Top one percent income. All the perks. From the outside, it looked like complete success. From the inside, it felt like I was trading hours of my life for a version of myself that no longer gave me life… Here’s the important part. I didn’t leave because I was miserable. I left because I was aware. This conversation is not about just chasing your passion or burning the boats prematurely. It’s about learning to recognize when staying is costing you more than leaving. We start with income. Because if you get this part wrong, nothing else matters. STEP ONE. ☝️ Tell the truth about what you actually make per hour. This framework came from listening to Alex Hormozi, and it permanently changed how I viewed my career, my hours worked, and my effective income. Most people lie to themselves about income because they only count salary vs hours clocked in. They don’t count the life cost. Write down: • Your total income, including all bonuses and commissions Now write down: • Hours worked each week • Commute time • Travel away from family • After-hours calls and texts • Mental load you carry home • Dinners missed • Weekends and gatherings half present • Stress that follows you into bed Add all of it up. Every single hour. This BLEW MY MIND 🤯 I was always on call, always expected to answer a text (no matter what time at night), always required to travel for meetings, on top of the 60 hours a week the job required. Now divide your total income by every hour the job actually takes from your life. Your freedom. Your choices. That number is your real hourly wage. (Much lower than I would have ever thought.) For a lot of high earners, this is the first uncomfortable moment. The paycheck is big, but the hours are bigger. And the total effective $ per hour is less than you thought. 💭

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Have you ever caught yourself thinking this? “I’m doing what I’m supposed to do, so why does it feel so draining?” That question matters, because most men are not lazy. They are responsible. They show up. They carry weight. When work loses its lift, it is usually not because the load is wrong, but because the lens is off. Here is the hope. Your work is not meaningless, and your effort is not invisible. Scripture gives us the anchor. “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.” Colossians 3:23 NIV This changes everything. It narrows the focus. One audience. One purpose. When God becomes the one you work for, joy has room to return. Not because the task changes, but because the meaning does. Here is the reframe. Joy does not come from loving your job. It comes from knowing your work matters. When your effort is offered to God, even routine tasks become purposeful. Excellence stops being exhausting and starts becoming worship. Faithfulness replaces frustration. Consistency builds quiet confidence. So carry this question into today. Who am I really working for right now? Here is today’s active stillness challenge. Take five quiet minutes. No phone. No noise. Sit still. Breathe slow. Ask God one direct question. “How do You want me to show up in my work today?” Then listen. After that stillness, move with intention. Choose one. A fifteen minute walk, letting your mind reset before the workday. Or five slow sets of pushups and squats, focusing on control and gratitude. Or ten minutes of stretching, releasing tension and reclaiming energy. Let the movement lock the mindset into your body. As you finish today, pray this in your own words. God, remind me that my work matters. Help me work with joy, focus, and excellence today. Align my effort with Your purpose and steady my heart when the work feels heavy. Amen. This is not about loving every task. It is about working with joy because your work has meaning.