I was getting all negative from my close family member I got grounded keep telling my self who I really am

I got to relax shabbos I feel so good and recharged

We hosted a last minute melava Malka. We both went to sleep late like close to 12:45! Kids were up and they needed us. I’m usually the one to take care of them regardless if I took care of myself yet first. This morning was different. My husband asked if I can go, and I said I’m not ready yet. He was a bit annoyed and I stood my ground very respectfully. I was able to care for myself while he gave them breakfast and all. I feel like a mensch and a queen as this is the first time I did this without any emotions or not nice feelings.

kids finally sleeping, cooking for Shabbos and catching up on videos!

Maybe somebody can help me I have very bad migraines yesterday and today Motrin etc didn't work. Any suggestions what can help? I happen to be stress free today if that's even possible and I made sure to drink and eat