It's Your Fault That Your Life Sucks
Have you ever felt like life isnāt fair? Or saw someone else hit a huge milestone while you stayed stuck? Or found yourself in a situation where you asked āWhy me?ā Well, the truth is, life is completely fair. The only person thatās been holding you back is YOU. YOU are responsible for how much money you make, how happy you are, the quality of your relationships, literally EVERYTHING. Itās no other person. No other thing. Itās just YOU. Itās not where you were born, your childhood, your personality, your addictions, your age, your race, your niche, your parents, your friends, the government, the āmatrixā or the āpuppet mastersā Itās just YOU. YOU are the puppet master. The true āmatrixā is WITHIN you. And I donāt mean to seem harsh when I say that. But consider what happens when you put the blame into someone elseās hands. You lose all power and control. By blaming your circumstances on another person/object, you unconsciously admit that your life is not in the control of your hands, but at the mercy of whoever you blame. And hence, you accept the circumstance as fate and say things like āThatās just the way it isā, and thus you remain in your current, unwanted circumstances. And that is precisely why you must say āeverything in my life is my faultā. "A man can fail many times, but he isn't a failure until he begins to blame somebody else." Take a second to analyze every area of your life. Health, wealth, relationships, happiness, looks, etc. What are you dissatisfied with? Where is there room for improvement? What have you been slacking off on? In which area have you always blamed someone/something else, genetics, fate, etc? Now hold yourself accountable. If youāre fat, itās YOUR fault. If youāre poor, itās YOUR fault. If youāre ugly, itās YOUR fault. If youāre not happy, itās YOUR fault. This is essential. Itās not easy. But it is mandatory. You must come to terms with the fact that you are the only person stopping you from reaching your goals.