It's Your Fault That Your Life Sucks
Have you ever felt like life isn’t fair? Or saw someone else hit a huge milestone while you stayed stuck? Or found yourself in a situation where you asked “Why me?” Well, the truth is, life is completely fair. The only person that’s been holding you back is YOU. YOU are responsible for how much money you make, how happy you are, the quality of your relationships, literally EVERYTHING. It’s no other person. No other thing. It’s just YOU. It’s not where you were born, your childhood, your personality, your addictions, your age, your race, your niche, your parents, your friends, the government, the “matrix” or the “puppet masters” It’s just YOU. YOU are the puppet master. The true “matrix” is WITHIN you. And I don’t mean to seem harsh when I say that. But consider what happens when you put the blame into someone else’s hands. You lose all power and control. By blaming your circumstances on another person/object, you unconsciously admit that your life is not in the control of your hands, but at the mercy of whoever you blame. And hence, you accept the circumstance as fate and say things like “That’s just the way it is”, and thus you remain in your current, unwanted circumstances. And that is precisely why you must say “everything in my life is my fault”. "A man can fail many times, but he isn't a failure until he begins to blame somebody else." Take a second to analyze every area of your life. Health, wealth, relationships, happiness, looks, etc. What are you dissatisfied with? Where is there room for improvement? What have you been slacking off on? In which area have you always blamed someone/something else, genetics, fate, etc? Now hold yourself accountable. If you’re fat, it’s YOUR fault. If you’re poor, it’s YOUR fault. If you’re ugly, it’s YOUR fault. If you’re not happy, it’s YOUR fault. This is essential. It’s not easy. But it is mandatory. You must come to terms with the fact that you are the only person stopping you from reaching your goals.