I have been reflecting a lot on all the challenges and pain I have experienced in the last 6 years. From divorce, financial struggles, overcoming addiction, closing a business after 23 years, self value and self worth struggles and I am sure some I am forgetting some. I could have thrown my hands up at anytime and just said screw it. I am done, I am a loser, I don’t deserve it and I will never amount to anything. However, this is not what I did. I beat addiction I beat the financial issues I beat the divorce and have an amazing relationship. I have the self value I have the self worth I closed the furniture store and I am building a new successful coaching business. The pain was meant to guide me to the place I am now. Reflect on the painful moments in your life. You may be experiencing them right now. See if you can find the pleasure in the pain.