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22 contributions to Real Men Real Style Community
OOTD-CW - 21 September 2026
Busy day today, including hopefully getting out the ad for the office manager position. Working on getting my wife set up to cover some of these immediate needs. Whereas we get along wonderfully in our personal lives, working together does not go so easily. Dangerous water to navigate and motivation to get the job ad out ASAP! Today’s outfit balances a potential in-person bespoke-shirt appointment and an internal video conference. The navy, brown, burgundy and oxblood palette provides business-formal structure with early-autumn warmth. - Blazer — BOJ-010 (Ralph Lauren): A navy wool blazer with a slight sheen, brass buttons, small notch lapels and a clean single vent. Its restrained texture anchors the patterned shirt and tie while maintaining an executive in-person presence. - - Shirt — DS-043 (Charles Tyrwhitt): A sky-blue non-iron cotton herringbone shirt with a spread collar and French cuffs, sized 16–36. The subtle weave adds visual depth without competing with the tie; the longer sleeves are noted as slightly beyond the ideal length. - - Undershirt — US-012 (True Classic): A navy cotton-blend crew-neck undershirt in size Large. It provides a smooth, unobtrusive foundation beneath the blue shirt. - - Trousers — SL-010 (di Milano): Brown wool odd trousers with dark-brown tonal variation and a subtle static-line weave. Their matte, tailored finish separates clearly from the navy blazer while connecting naturally to the warm leather accessories. - - Tie — NT-064 (Jos. A. Bank): A low-sheen burgundy silk tie with a gold, blue, white, olive and gray geometric pattern. At 4 inches wide, it balances the spread collar and should be worn with a clean Half-Windsor knot. - - Pocket Square — PS-027 (GB Selected): A 15.5-inch white cotton square with a large tone-on-tone border and matte finish. A crisp TV fold supplies formality and contrast without adding another competing pattern. - - Belt — B-017 (Nordstrom): A flat oxblood leather belt with a silver buckle, sized 32. It was specifically identified as a preferred pairing for the selected oxblood boots. - - Footwear — DSh-022 (Yearn Shoemaker): Custom oxblood museum-calf Balmoral boots with dark burnishing, an almond toe, fiddleback waist and hand-welted leather soles. The brogue-free upper and refined artisanal construction provide true business-formal polish while reinforcing the burgundy and brown palette. - - Socks — DSo-095 (Mes Chaussettes Rouges/Mazarin): Sky-blue over-the-calf socks in ribbed cotton lisle, size 42–43. Their restrained color echoes the shirt while creating a smooth transition between the brown trousers and oxblood boots. - - Cufflinks — CL-030 (Unbranded): Small, polished gold box cufflinks with linear detailing and T-bar closures. Their simple geometry coordinates with the tie’s gold accents without introducing another conspicuous motif. - - Tie Bar — TA-003 (Unbranded): A gold-plated tie bar with horizontal-line detailing. It reinforces the tie and cufflink metals while giving the broad geometric tie a controlled, structured presentation. - - Watch — W-009 (Mido): A 40 mm Mido Belluna automatic with a brown sunburst dial, rose-gold-tone case and brown leather strap. Its warm metals and leather harmonize especially well with the trousers, belt and boots. - - Ankle Watch — W-001 (Apple): The 46 mm titanium-slate Apple Watch is worn on the ankle solely for health and activity tracking. It is not visible and is not evaluated as part of the outfit’s visual harmony. - - Pen — P-006 (Montblanc): The Meisterstück 149 fountain pen in high-gloss black resin with platinum trim and a medium 18K-gold nib. Filled with Iroshizuku Kon-peki blue ink, it is a leadership-grade writing instrument suitable for notes during either meeting. - - Wedding Ring — R-001 (Ellie’s Jewelry): A platinum wedding ring set with diamonds. Its cool metal provides a quiet personal constant within the otherwise warm accessory palette. - - Business Card Case — BCC-002 (Fort Belvedere): A brown bison-leather bifold case with tan accents, silver hardware and two approximately 20-card compartments. The pronounced grain adds character while remaining appropriate for a bespoke-clothing appointment. - - Briefcase — CRY-002 (Carl Friedrik): The chocolate-brown Palissy Double briefcase in vegetable-tanned Italian vachetta leather, finished with brushed silver hardware. Its structured form, twin compartments and 15-inch laptop sleeve make it polished enough for client-facing use without sacrificing utility. - - Wallet — WL-002 (Fort Belvedere): A full-grain bull-hide bifold in antique mahogany with petrol-blue stitching and a forest-green moiré lining. Its rich patina-ready leather supports the outfit’s brown and burgundy foundation. - - Fragrance — FR-022 (Tom Ford): Ombré Leather Parfum, a leather-floral composition built around cardamom, leather, jasmine, amber, moss and patchouli. Its autumnal character complements the oxblood boots and brown tailoring; apply lightly for morning professional settings. EASILY my favorite fragrance in my collection. - - Eyewear — EW-004 (Randolph): Concorde aviator sunglasses with a polished 24K-gold-plated frame and polarized gray glass lenses. The gold frame echoes the tie bar and cufflinks while retaining a clean, classic profile.
OOTD-CW - 21 September 2026
1 like • Sep 22
I second the shoes Doc. 🔥
Hat cleaning tips
Gents, Any tips on either cleaning or spot cleaning hats like tribly's or panama's? Noticing some sweat stains near the band on my Panama hat so I'm not sure of I wash the whole hat or spot clean. It's straw and I don't want to ruin it. Thanks in advance!
Hat cleaning tips
2 likes • Jul 30
@Alex Kilpatrick The website for Panama Jack says (grade 3) toquilla palm. They have care instructions too but I don't think just warm water on a cloth is going to help this situation.
1 like • Jul 30
@Alex Kilpatrick Agreed. Thanks
Knowing the dress code and ignoring it
Hi Gents, If the unwritten dress code is super relax gym like attire but it's not a gym setting, do you ignore it and bring your outfit up a few notches to the casual level and dress how you want or dress like everyone else? What would you do?
1 like • Jul 19
I see where you're coming from when it comes to organized gatherings and that much I absolutely follow you. However, I'm just going to a blue collar job where I'll be changing out of my "couture" for my work uniform then, back into them at the end of my day. I haven't received any negative remarks, mostly compliments and some neutral comments. Most simply can't fathom why I put forth the effort. I'm probably just over thinking it. At the very least, it got us all here to share our like minded thoughts with each other. Thank you for sharing Dr. Cole!
1 like • Jul 19
@Shreyas Parvate You're most welcome Shreyas! It's nice to have this community with so much helpful feedback.
Great Gatsby themed birthday party tonight for a good friend
The amusing part is that I actually already owned everything that you see me wearing in this photograph. The only thing I bought specifically for the party is the walking cane. 🤓
Great Gatsby themed birthday party tonight for a good friend
5 likes • Jun 14
Looking SHARP Oscar! Love it 🔥🔥
Work boot cream
Doing a quick clean up of my double h cowboy boots Ariat work boot cream does an awesome job
Work boot cream
4 likes • Mar 3
Looks good. Provide us with an update with the product had fully cured too.
4 likes • Mar 3
@Nicholas Logan nice! I'll look into this product. Thanks for sharing.
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Hoping to get better style advice from you gents. Watching Antonio and Aaron's videos help a ton but being able to actually ask someone is better.

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