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Dating With Clarity

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ADVENT CALENDAR DAY 6!
It's time for our Advent Calendar challenge! List your top 5 relationship values. Circle ONE you want to embody more this month. Does your behavior match these values? Feel free to share and/or comment them down below!
ADVENT CALENDAR DAY 6!
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1. Respect 2. Commitment 3. Peace 4. Interest align 5. Supportive These values do match my own now-a-days
Meeting women
Where do we go to meet women these days? It seems to me that a lot of women that have let's say old fashion values never go out and stay at home. Or maybe it's because I don't go out much but when I do it's usually only the grocery store or a kid's park with my daughter.
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@Jordan Torres i feel that the dating apps just isn't for me. I'm not very photogenic. So that'll hurt me doing those.
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@Shelley Badayos I want to meet an old fashion type. And my lifestyle is bringing closer to the upper class. So I'm looking for someone that likes me for me and before the upper status.
Who can help me make sense of this?
Hi everyone. Sorry for being inactive but I've been occupied by doing a production of the Wizard of Oz. I want to share a story of my interactions with a girl who I communicated with on Plenty of Fish. At first then conversation was going really well as we were chatting about our shared interests, I got her phone number and everything appeared to be going in a good direction. When it came time to arrange a date, she said she wanted to do it and agreed a place to meet but when it came time to choose a day and time to meet, she didn't answer. I sent that text asking when suits her to meet about 10-15 minutes after she agreed on where to meet. She didn't answer the text when I asked if everything was okay and it got to the point where I just wished her luck and said I wouldn't be in touch again. I'm not sure what happened to decide not to reply just minutes after saying she wanted to go on a date and I also don't know why someone would give out their phone number to someone they didn't plan on meeting. I've asked people I know who can't understand why she would do that so I reach out to here to ask this community if you can theorise what happened as it is still something that baffles me
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Just gotta say these comments are like gold. Its nice to have a place where we can ask questions and not get clowned on. Thanks everyone.
Q&A TUESDAY!!!
Hey guys!! Happy Tuesday! Opening the floor for your dating questions. Please comment them down below and I’ll answer them as soon as I can!
Q&A TUESDAY!!!
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@Shelley Badayos but the problem for me and probably a bunch of other guys is that I don't pick up the signals or cues. They are usually soooo minute that it's easily over looked by us simple creations that we call men.
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@Shelley Badayos maybe. But I honestly think that most of the clues that a lot of women say is the eye test. That one I fail 100% of the time. Lol and if they flirt with me I think it's just them being friendly.
Small Wins stack up.
Just sharing my recent win. On Monday at the Gym I was training legs and whilst resting between sets I turned around and saw a girl on the Leg Extension machine. She was getting off and looked right at me into my eyes. I nodded and said you alright. She said it back and walked to the treadmill. But she said it back with her headphones in lol. Anyways roll on to Friday morning. I was using the cable stack and she walked into the Gym with her friend. And looked at me right in the eyes again and I looked back. We didn't say anything but the look on her face was like oh it's that guy from Monday. I was just starting my set at the time. Let's see what happens next time 😉. Win: subconsciously saying you alright with no fear, and eye contact longer than usual.
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I gotta say your a brave man. Its so challenging to even talk to a girl at the gym nowadays. Keep it up and you'll soon find someone that has your mindset and the love of keeping in shape.
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Carl Webber
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Just another single parent trying to make it in this world we live in. I'm a Financial Educator/Advisor, a motorcycle technician for BMW/DUCATI.

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