I posted about a new job in tech and how casual the attire is. I didn’t want to feel over dressed. But I believe I found my groove and everyone knows me fit it. Todays OOTD: - blue jeans - Boots : Redwing Iron Ranger - Shirt : OCBD blue - Tie : gold and purple American Living Repp - Jacket : Thursday Boots Waxed Canvas Field - Hat : baker boy cap gifted recently from Benghazi Libya - Watch : Hamilton Field Khaki Auto It might be a statement with the bakers boy cap but I love the look. The cap was just gifted along with a gold fountain from a market in Benghazi Libya. The stories my clothes tell are richer than the aesthetic themselves.

I find myself dressing to the occasion. I firmly believe that presenting myself as precise as possible for a given activity sets the stage for me to enjoy the richness and depth of the experience optimally. - Stetson, wranglers, wax cloth duster, ariat boots and spurs for driving cattle. - Linen and Colombian sombrero Aguadeno hat for the Caribbean. - Woolf flat cap, shearling coat, cardigan, shirt and tie for winter months - Tweed, brooks brother tie and shirt and jeans for academia and study. Embody your endeavor. There is richness in presentation of the journey.

So I switched jobs recently. Big change in my career with a lot of risk and hopeful upside. I am at a really fast growing tech startup. I’m in office everyday and the attire by everyone up to the CEO is as casual as you can imagine. Shorts, seats, tee shirts, etc. I don’t want to dress down but I also don’t want to be so over dressed. As someone who prefers a tie and a tweed blazer, it is tough for me to figure out the sweet spot. Any advice?

My age is telling me I'm an adult man but I still don't really feel like it. Kind of just feel like a kid pretending to be an adult. Anyone else feeling that way? I know everyone says things like fake it till you make it, but will I ever really feel like an adult or is it just my joints that will feel it? 😅

I’ve read endless chatter about the virtues of a signature fragrance, but I juggle over 50 scents like a circus act, so pinning one down feels like chasing a unicorn. No signature fragrance here. Instead, I’m curious: what nails your signature style? For some, it’s that hat they’d sooner die than remove. Me? I’m wedded to the pocket square. I suit up daily for work and never skip the pocket square—it’s the accessory that screams, “I pay attention to the details." What’s your style hallmark?