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💥 New Name and Branding Announcement 💥
Dear members, Our community is officially getting a new name and theme!! Real Talk for Singles 50+ is now → Find Love After 50 [aka FLAF]. Along with that, you may have noticed a "subtle" Seinfeld-inspired vibe... (I still find that show hilarious after all those years). Why the change? Dating does not need to feel heavy, frustrating, or soul-sucking. Many of you are thoughtful, accomplished, emotionally aware humans… and yet dating can start to feel like a second job with terrible benefits. So I’m rebranding the community with a clear intention (and to set the example) 👉 More fun. Less formality. 👉 More playfulness. Less overthinking. 👉 More courage to take risks and show up as your bold self. Less wondering what people will think of you. “Real Talk” served us well, but this next chapter is more forward-looking. It’s about momentum, possibility, not just talking, but actually making some bold moves. I'm giving you permission to experiment, laugh, and stop playing it so safe that nothing changes. Humor helps us loosen up, take risks, and stop treating dating like a referendum on our worth. So I want your honest take. Quick poll 👇 How does the new name and theme land for you? Feel free to comment if you want to say more. This community is a co-creation, and your feedback genuinely matters. Because dating after 50 should feel more like eating a big salad…and less like waiting around at Monk’s wondering if you'll ever land a table. — Dessi
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💥 New Name and Branding Announcement 💥
1 like • 5h
So long as it gets the intent across I have never been big on naming. The new one is fine ❤️ I fear I have too much to say to often.
Merry Christmas & Happy New Year! 💖🎄✨🎀
I know that many of you are taking this week off from the usual routines and to-dos. Perhaps you're taking stock of the past year and assessing the path you have walked. Remember that you've accomplished a lot. Even if it doesn't feel like it. Remember, you are worthy of love. You are worthy of appreciation. And are WORTHY of feeling like you've done enough. Take time for yourself and celebrate how far you've come. No matter where you are. 💜 Dessi xo
1 like • 7h
Almost a new year. I personally am hoping for a happier one. I wish the same for everyone.
Today Is Take Action Thursday + Song of the Day
Today, consider initiating one micro-connection or action that could strengthen your courage muscle or open the door to something new: - Smile at someone - Make eye contact - Say hello to someone in the wild - Update a sentence in your dating profile (if you have one) - Post or comment on a post here in our community (give us a glimpse of your life or who you are) Low-stakes, but builds confidence and social energy. Song of the day: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f5qICl3Fr3w Let me know what action you took in the comments below. Let's Go!
1 like • 19d
I am cheating here because this started yesterday. Background: I get to work early and the parking garage is mostly empty. Yesterday a car pulled in at the same time as me. As I was walking to the building I noticed a lady getting out of the other car. I didn’t recognize her and just headed for the office. After getting through the security gate I heard a clanging noise and turned around to see what it was. She was carrying a few items so I offered to assist. I was turned down and she didn’t seem overwhelmed so I apologized for not offering at the car and just went to work. Today she was just behind me getting in and when I exited my car I noticed her head down on her steering wheel. I decided not to interrupt as I didn’t even know her name. I can imagine several reasons for her behavior including a need for privacy. Did I do the right thing?
0 likes • 18d
@Dessi Schachne thanks I was mostly concerned with my reaction to her possible emotional distress in her car. Would it have been appropriate to stop and ask if she was okay?
Nothing now
Well I'm new to this and I hope I am welcome to make friends on Skool
1 like • 19d
I believe everyone should be welcomed. Are you attending any events?
Fun travel
I live in Suitland but my daughter had me visit her in Egypt last month. I got a Balloon ride, a boat ride and resort stay. And some nice pictures.
Fun travel
0 likes • 25d
It was a first. So kind of her to invite me. Then set up tours and walk me through them.
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Brian Gaylord
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I find myself single in my later years. I did not expect this and now I would like a second miracle.

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Joined Nov 25, 2025
Suitland MD
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