There’s a moment in every man’s life where he feels, “Damn… I think I’m the first one in my family to think like this.” That’s not arrogance.That’s purpose. Psychology calls it intergenerational transformation.Someone always becomes the first to question the belief system…and when you do, everyone behind you benefits. You’re not better. You’re chosen. Pick up that responsibility. Let's go brothas You might be in the middle of your story right now. What ever your challenge is, what ever parts of you that you need to leave behind to step into the next version... that's the story you're going to tell. If you don't have a before and after I "grew up", or made this big move and decision and changed... then you are still in the first part of the story. It's going to be up to you to finish the story and make that change. It's the hero's journey. We all are presented with this possible journey, but it's only going to happen if you take action.

I'm reflecting, reading god's word and praying this sunday morning! This is what I'm being led to do and say today. I know some of y’all been through hell. Abuse. Addiction. Divorce. Jail. Loss. Trauma. I’ve walked through my own fires. none of that gets to define you unless you let it. God has this wild habit of using broken men to do big things. Your past is your training ground, not your prison. Don’t drag it into your future like a dead mule. Drop it. Step over it. Build something better with what you learned. One of the hardest battles you'll ever fight with yourself as a man is the battle of relationship with a woman. Can't live with them , can't live without them right? Tonight Tony Graf is going to share some wisdom that will allow us stay grounded in our relationship and lead it the way it should be led. Hope to see you in 6 hours on the first monthly super sunday call. Guest Speaker: Tony Graf, 4 Architypes of Wives and Girlfriends @Antony Graf https://www.skool.com/thewarriorsorder/calendar?eid=5bcd0f695b1f42a38eb9af82f37ffa94&eoid=1764550800

I'm grateful for each and every one of you. We're stronger together. Gratitude is spiritual.. it's very practical and scientific as well... Psycology, health and wellness in general know being greatful is the way. It's the highest vibration. Prayers start with thank you... The holidays begin with thanksgiving. After I meditate I begin my emotional state change and prayer with gratitude. it just works. That's how we were created. What are you grateful for? Write 1-3 things below and if you don't have a gratitude journal you might see that this practice changes how you feel. We are in the last week of our group challenge. Finish strong!

I pray that you all have an Amazing Thanksgiving! I love all of you!

Listen up Bros, this might be a good one for you. I’ve been digging into Roy Masters heavy lately as I mentioned yesterday. going through his books… and it’s wild how much he gets it. He said men fall apart because they react, lose control, and forget who they are. He's been teaching this stuff for like 50 years it's nuts. Look around — he’s right.Most dudes out here are soft as pudding.Weak as hell. Addicted. Lost.Letting life whip their ass. I have been there many times, spent most my life there hiding. I was there in 2020. I couldn't take it anymore. Something had to change, and change like never before. I finally had to grow up, grow into a man. I had to face the things that had always been there I'd just been avoiding. I had to be broke down. Down into a small little insecure man first and it was hard. I had trouble adjusting to living with all i'd done. I felt weak. I thought I'd never feel strong again. But let me tell you something real clear God don’t call soft men. He calls the ones who been through hell. The beat-up ones.The scarred ones. The “I shouldn’t even be alive” ones. The troublemakers. The outcasts. The wild ones He can turn into warriors . leaders and healers. Every man in the Bible was a freaking mess before God got ahold of him.David.Moses.Paul.They weren’t choir boys. They were fighters.Just like you. So stop crying about your past. Stop thinking you ain’t good enough. Stop acting like life owes you a hug. You’re BUILT for this. God’s been shaping you the whole damn time. Stand up. Own your story. Step into the cage and fight. Rise up, fellas. Time to be the men God meant us to be. We can get more into this on Sunday's call but I think it's going to be better than that. My energy and vibe for this first call is FUN. Exciting, enthusiastic! Will you be there? It's once a month. Showing up, shows your committed to other men in here which will come back to you and your family, your sons and grandsons. I'll see you 7pm cst sunday evening.