The most beautiful metaphor for growth I know
As I was talking with you today, a memory came to me — a metaphor, for growth and healing. It captures beautifully the fact that healing/growth is not an event; it’s a process. It has brought me a lot of comfort when I was younger and feeling I wasn’t making any progress. Hope it comforts, you, too. _________________________________________ Chapter I I walk down the street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I fall in.I am lost… I am hopeless. It isn’t my fault It takes forever to find a way out. _________________________________________ Chapter II I walk down the same street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I pretend I don’t see it. I fall in again. I can’t believe I am in this same place. But it isn’t my fault. It still takes a long time to get out. _________________________________________ Chapter III I walk down the same street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I see it there. I still fall in… it’s a habit… but, my eyes are open. I know where I am. It is my fault. I get out immediately. _________________________________________ Chapter IV I walk down the same street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I walk around it. _________________________________________ Chapter V I walk down another street.