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Welcome to The Pleasure Project community **Step 1:** Introduce yourself in the comments below (see prompts at the bottom) **Step 2:** Explore the Classroom and start engaging with the resources --- **COMMUNITY AGREEMENTS:** **1. Active participation keeps us thriving.** This is a space for mutual exchange, not passive consumption. If you're here only to observe without contributing—no posts, comments, or engagement—you'll be removed after 30 days of inactivity. We check activity monthly to maintain the integrity and vibrancy of this community. **2. No unsolicited business pitching.** This community is not a marketplace for your services. Soliciting members with business offers will result in an immediate ban. If someone pitches you, please report them to an admin. --- **TO GET STARTED:** Drop a comment below and share: - Your name - What brings you to this community—what are you exploring or seeking around pleasure, embodiment, or erotic expansion? - One intention you're holding for your time here We're glad you're here. Let's build something beautiful together. See you in the comments 💋
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@William Engroff I consider myself a work in progress
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@William Engroff thank you
A body that can feel can tell the truth
And a body that can tell the truth can stop performing. So many of us were trained to survive by going numb: to intellectualize, to overfunction, to be “strong,” to be palatable, to be good. Numbness is a strategy. What if you didn’t need that strategy ALL the time. Where in your body do you notice yourself going numb—or holding your breath—in daily life? When you reclaim the capacity to feel, you reclaim the capacity to choose. Experiencing ourselves at choice is a big chunk of the work here in the Pleasure Project. Erotic pleasure is purposeful, potent medicine. It sits at the crossroads of power, shame, belonging, and desire. It shows us where we clamp down, where we rush, where we barter our yes for approval. It also shows us that the body doesn’t just remember trauma, it remembers agency. It remembers what it feels like to be met, to be wanted without being used, to be in contact without being consumed. “Feeling” is the body’s way of speaking truth in a language older than logic. Boundaries. Consent. Timing. Truth. The Pleasure Project teaches new possibilities: - Safety without collapse - Aliveness without danger - Intimacy without self abandonment I am curious: what messages about pleasure have shaped your body’s capacity to receive? What might “receiving without apology” look like in your current season of life?
4 likes • Mar 12
I honestly don't have an answer to this yet, but felt the need to comment anyway because another question very similar to this "What would it feel like to not have your 'armor' on all the time?" was posed to me yesterday and I'm finally seeing it's something I need to sit with truly consider.
Cleaning Up Our Act
We say we love ourselves… but do we show up like we do? If a lover says, “I really love you,” but never makes time for you, doesn’t listen, doesn’t honor your needs, what kind of relationship is that? Fractured. Inconsistent. Painful. And yet — this is how many of us treat our bodies. We say the words, but keep overworking, numbing, pushing, performing wellness instead of living it. Cleaning up our act is about bringing integrity back to that relationship. Daily devotion in this erospiritual world simply means all the small ways we come into right relationship with our soma. Start simple: ✴ Listen to what your body is actually asking for. ✴ Offer attention, rest, and presence instead of fixing. ✴ Ask: What am I willing to stop doing that harms me? Pleasure begins here, in the honesty of how we treat ourselves. The body has been waiting for us to remember.
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Listening to my body is something I've just recently started to practice. So often I've found myself ignoring my body because something "needs" to be done or someone else "needs" my attention. Listening to my body slows things down in a positive way.
Be noticeable
One of the things I marvel at is how everything on this planet wants to be noticed, and how everything has it’s preferred way to be noticed. From the way the flowers bloom to attract bees, to the way the birds sings songs, to the drama of the ocean, calling all who play in it. It’s shameless! Why do we (humans) shame being noticed? In what ways do you like to be noticed? Feel free to share a photo of you being noticeable well as your thoughts!
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@Jessicka Chamberlin Thank you!
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@Jessicka Chamberlin Thank you for sharing both the picture and your story.
🎮 Community Game Time!!
It’s Friday. Let’s have a little fun! If you could instantly become empowered by ONE erotic superpower, what would it be, and WHY? Don’t overthink it. Just drop the first thing that hits your mind. 😎 Mine: The ability to look at someone for 5 seconds and pass them an orgasm that would change their entire life without even touching them. Alright…Your turn. GO, GO, GO
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@Dwan A love it!!
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Currently on an adventure to explore all aspects of myself; mind, body, and spirit.

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