Welcome to The Pleasure Project community **Step 1:** Introduce yourself in the comments below (see prompts at the bottom) **Step 2:** Explore the Classroom and start engaging with the resources --- **COMMUNITY AGREEMENTS:** **1. Active participation keeps us thriving.** This is a space for mutual exchange, not passive consumption. If you're here only to observe without contributing—no posts, comments, or engagement—you'll be removed after 30 days of inactivity. We check activity monthly to maintain the integrity and vibrancy of this community. **2. No unsolicited business pitching.** This community is not a marketplace for your services. Soliciting members with business offers will result in an immediate ban. If someone pitches you, please report them to an admin. --- **TO GET STARTED:** Drop a comment below and share: - Your name - What brings you to this community—what are you exploring or seeking around pleasure, embodiment, or erotic expansion? - One intention you're holding for your time here We're glad you're here. Let's build something beautiful together. See you in the comments 💋

You can’t pay attention busy. You can’t pay attention when your mind is scanning for what’s next. Paying attention is about opening a door to presence. In sex, presence identifies safety. When attention is steady and undivided, the nervous system shifts towards a response allows the erotic to thrive. Presence and performance are opposites. Performance looks outward, managing an image. Presence turns inward, listening, receiving, allowing sensation to move without commentary. To explore the erotic, you must clear your calendar. must create spaciousness to be with your body. What is on your calendar that doesn’t need to be, yet is in the way of your paying attention, and therefore in the way of paying attention.

Embrace Curiosity, Begin to Move Away from Judgment: This is a space for learning and exploration, not critique. Approach every post and perspective with an open, non-judgmental heart. We welcome questions from all levels of experience. Respectful Discourse is Mandatory: Treat every member and their experience with dignity. No personal attacks, shaming, name-calling, or disrespectful language will be tolerated. Challenge ideas, not people. This is a "Full-Body Yes" Space: Honor your own boundaries and the boundaries of others. If a topic is not for you, simply scroll past. Consent applies to conversations, too—only share what feels authentic and safe for you. What Happens Here, Stays Here (The Vegas Rule): All private information, personal stories, and identifying details shared by members within the community are strictly confidential. Do not screenshot, copy, or share any content, posts, or member profiles outside of this Skool group. Protect Anonymity: When sharing a story, be mindful of sharing identifying details about partners or other people who are not members of the group and who have not consented to be shared. Keep the focus on your experience and learning. Offer Value Over Promotion (The 90/10 Rule): We are here to learn and connect, not to sell. No overt self-promotion, spam, or unsolicited links to external services, products, or other communities. If you share a resource, ensure it directly relates to the conversation and provides significant value to the project's goal. Amina's resources are the exception. Keep it Focused on Pleasure & Somatics: Ensure your posts and questions are relevant to the group's mission: adult, pleasure-based sex education and the somatic (body-centered) approach. Off-topic, political, or purely personal rant-style posts will be removed to maintain focus. Welcome New Explorers: When new members introduce themselves, greet them warmly! A cohesive community makes everyone feel seen and welcomed. Respond to questions and share your victories (big or small) to encourage others.

“"Let yourself be silently drawn by the strange pull of what you really love.” -Rumi If you don’t know what you love, how ever will you find pleasure? How much time do you spend doing what you love? What of love have you left behind to survive? To belong? To exist? Pleasure is a fire that needs fuel. What feeds yours??

And a body that can tell the truth can stop performing. So many of us were trained to survive by going numb: to intellectualize, to overfunction, to be “strong,” to be palatable, to be good. Numbness is a strategy. What if you didn’t need that strategy ALL the time. Where in your body do you notice yourself going numb—or holding your breath—in daily life? When you reclaim the capacity to feel, you reclaim the capacity to choose. Experiencing ourselves at choice is a big chunk of the work here in the Pleasure Project. Erotic pleasure is purposeful, potent medicine. It sits at the crossroads of power, shame, belonging, and desire. It shows us where we clamp down, where we rush, where we barter our yes for approval. It also shows us that the body doesn’t just remember trauma, it remembers agency. It remembers what it feels like to be met, to be wanted without being used, to be in contact without being consumed. “Feeling” is the body’s way of speaking truth in a language older than logic. Boundaries. Consent. Timing. Truth. The Pleasure Project teaches new possibilities: - Safety without collapse - Aliveness without danger - Intimacy without self abandonment I am curious: what messages about pleasure have shaped your body’s capacity to receive? What might “receiving without apology” look like in your current season of life?