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The Gay Men's Table

106 members • Free

4 contributions to The Gay Men's Table
Coffee Hour 6pm PDT (05/25)
Either we can do a Hot Seat Session where 3 members get 20min each to share their matter and get some feedback from the group... Or we can talk about - How not to turn into a lonely bitter Betty (what to do about it) If you want a 20min Hot Seat, comment below with your matter and reserve your spot. We can always start with a hot seat session and finish with the "bitter Betty" topic :) Talk to you guys soon!
1 like • 18d
I need to put this on my calendar. I keep missing them. 🥺
Sunday Circle
What’s one thing about yourself you’re learning to accept — and how has accepting it already started to change you?
1 like • 18d
That I have no control over anything except my attitude, or how I react to a situation. I’m choosing peace after a lifelong battle of being in survival mode.
Sunday Circle
There’s something most of us want but haven’t said out loud yet. What is it for you — and what would it take to actually go after it?
1 like • May 11
@Frederik Schaaf Iowa for now, but born in Missouri. I was raised in a very strict, religious home that taught me that my feelings were wrong and unacceptable. Being myself just wasn't an option. Until recently, I've been living this "created" persona that I was heterosexual and very masculine. That, as you can imagine, is exhausting. My life is very different right now, but I'm trying to figure it all out. My best friend is very supportive but he's straight so doesn't have a lot of experience in what I'm going through.
0 likes • May 12
@Jacyn Benzinger I don't think you're asking to much. My best friend is literally the only one (outside of stb ex that truly knows me) and is my lifeline to sanity right now. I worry I depend on him to heavily for my trauma dumps (he says I'm not, but I still worry). We go for walks all the time and it's very therapeutic. Ive been going by myself lately and it has actually been very good for me, both physically and mentally. Have you tried that?
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1 like • May 10
I'm Ben, 51, living in Des Moines, Iowa and working as a Barber in a traditional barbershop. I start school to become a massage therapist on Monday and am pretty excited for it. I am going through a divorce (amicable) after a 24 year marriage. I got tired of living a lie and realized how short life is after my Mom died in early '25. I'm slowly finding my way being single. I recently started taking vocal lessons hoping to try out for a local play when an appropriate role comes open. I am hoping to get to know others that may offer insight into some of the challenges of this new way of life for me.
1 like • May 12
@Ben Yin absolutely. I'd really appreciate that.
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Barber and Massage Therapy Student

Active 2d ago
Joined May 9, 2026