If you’re here, chances are you’ve felt it before. That quiet sense of not quite fitting the mold. That nudge to take a different path, even when it doesn’t make sense to everyone else. That tension between what’s expected of us and what we feel God calling us toward. This space, Right Here, exists for that exact reason. This isn’t a place to impress anyone. It's not about cliche motivation or pretending we have it all figured out. It’s a room for men who think differently. Who feel early. Who know what they should do, but don’t want to walk it alone. Here’s how we keep this space solid: • We’re honest • We’re respectful • We’re present • We speak from our own experience • We leave people better than we found them Let’s get this started 👇 Introduce yourself below: 1. Where you’re from 2. What made you realize you might be a “black sheep” 3. What season of life or decision you’re currently navigating No pressure to overshare. Just be real. This community will only be as powerful as we choose to make it. Glad we’re here. We’re not early. We’re not late. We’re right on time. Let’s walk this road together. 🤝

Hi, I’m from Southern California. I definitely feel like a black sheep where i live. I struggle to find “people like me” with majority of pillars and values aligned. In a season of realignment, surrender and reconfiguration.

Grew up on a small estate in a town called Walsall in the UK. I made some terrible choices in my teenage years that landed me in prison at 19 for a street fight. Nine months inside. Got out and my dad took me to work with him in construction, as a side hussle I ran nightclub events for a few years while battling drink and party drugs. Hit 30 and realized I was going nowhere. Went back to college, got into Construction site management and worked my way up to earn Royal charter ship status in my field. Somewhere in there I started BJJ (purple belt now), travelled Asia and Australia, got sober, married Jo, and we’re homeschooling our two girls - Ivy and Edie. These days I’m up at 4-5am doing cold showers and kettlebells, training twice a week, making electronic music as Uberkoolsound, managing construction projects, and trying to live clean following the Biblio style diet. The goal? Get me and Jo into our caravan eventually, live simple, pay minimal tax, raise independent daughters who know their own minds, train until I’m old, and meet God with no regrets. Not perfect. Still figuring it out. But free. “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds.” - James 1:2