Dating after 30 is terrible like you're old enough to know better but you still want to stay young and make four decisions. So then you have to pick and choose Am I just going to wall out and do what I want and not worry about another relationship or do I just scare men off by bringing up marriage in the first date. Backstory hey divorced twice single for about a year and a half. And I bartended a strip club and I'm a grandmother and I have a teenage daughter and I like my dogs more than I like people and I spend most my time at the gym and I may be have like two friends. Realistically speaking it's going to be very hard to find anybody to keep up with me. I love this topic, it's so funny especially nowadays it's 2025 people be like nah I'm single but I have a friend, my ex-wife and I live together, I'm friends with all my exes but it ain't like that, I really like you but I really just want to have sex with everybody right now. Haha you can't make up this these are all very real things that people have told me. Not calling the kettle black I'm just saying stay single until you meet the person that you really click with And when you know you know. As mentioned previously I am dating a 28-year-old and he is amazing we hung out a few times before we ever even did anything and we got to know each other on another level which, highly recommend doing that, never done that before in any relationship. Cheers and stay positive

Oh I said it That's what this world needs More physical exercise. A body in motion stays in motion. Think about it if you don't use something you lose it. You don't have to be an extreme bodybuilder You don't have to go and above and beyond and spend 8 hours a day at the gym Go a few times a week get in your 10,000 steps take the stairs instead of the elevator, my daughter hates that one. Money invested in your health is better than money invested at the doctor's office when you're sick. Stretch lift a few weights not only will you look good but scientifically your body functions better your brain will be less foggy You will not lose as much definition muscle definition when you get older because you're going to be working it You work your muscle you keep your muscle You don't want to lose bone density keep moving. Don't just exercise make it a habit Strong as the new sexy

I'm not here to preach I'm just speaking from my own experience be that parent that let their kids learn the hard way be that parent who would do anything for your kids be that parent who doesn't stop hustling and taking care of themselves to be there for their kids and their future grandkids Life is wild and messy and sad and happy and glorious but best of all you only have one life Make it count. P be a role model. I train a lot I'm always coming up with new business ideas I have the attention span of a toddler but you know what My kids will never see me just give up because it gets hard. They definitely will see me fail but they will also definitely see me get back up and keep going like dang your mom's a robot. Social media influencers all this stuff is influencing our kids I get it My daughter is on TikTok all the time and social media with her fake accounts like she don't know she don't think I know. So have these talks with them be open be honest. Disclaimer my son is 22 my daughter is 15. My only goal in life is to make sure they are not little assholes and they grow up to be productive members of society. Cheers to the Future

Let's just talk about this for a minute I recently turned 40 years old kind of a big milestone for a woman. Hair starts to go gray metabolism slows down The doctors want you to get a mammogram what the. But I'm feeling pretty good at 40 I turned 40 3 months ago so now here it is in December and I just tested for the fire department to go to the fire academy I worked all night and I drove 3 hours to go do a physical test and I beat my time by 2 minutes and do you know how much respect these younger kids had for us older generation that was there. Badass. I 100% believe that things get better with age take care of yourself treat your body like a Dodge 1500 supercharger badass put good in get good out and not like a dumpster fire. Around the same time actually just turning 40 I started dating somebody for the first time in my life I started dating somebody 12 years younger than me granted baby you're amazing but you act like you're 45, let me just tell you. Life is good. Cheers to the next 40 🎉

Just because you may be in a bad way now doesn't mean that's how you're going to stay. Think short-term think long-term change your thinking. Change your life. The mind is more powerful than we give it credit for. Personally I think I can be anything I want to be, I'm a certified EMT, I own multiple online Shopify stores, I want to be a firefighter, I want to be a flight attendant, I want to be so successful that people remember me for giving back to the community while being able to support my family. I want to inspire others To live their best lives. You're only limitation is you Don't ever forget that