Do I need to be into my subjects for it to work? No. In fact, I’m rarely ever attracted to my subjects. This part of me just shuts off completely. I’m in my dom mode so I’m not focused on myself. I would actually highly recommend working with people you have the least attraction to. Different age group, different orientation, happily married… Do they need to be attracted to me? Absolutely not. Eros isn’t attraction. It can be build between any consenting adults opening to each other. This session was captured at a training in London with an incredible queer volunteer who agreed to share the footage. Entire session in the erotic hypnosis course.

Most hypnotists learn induction fast. Deepening is where the real work begins. Here's what I've found makes the biggest difference at the intermediate level: 1. Stop rushing the descent. Silence is a deepener. After an induction, most practitioners fill the space too quickly. Let the person settle. Three to five seconds of nothing does more than another suggestion. 2. Use the body as your feedback loop. Depth isn't in the words, it's in the body. Watch for micro-changes: swallowing, small muscle twitches, the jaw releasing, breathing shifting to the belly. When you see them, mirror them back with your pacing. You're not guiding anymore, you're tracking. 3. Layer sensory channels. Most hypnotists work one channel at a time, usually auditory. Add weight, temperature, texture through suggestion. "Notice how heavy your hands feel... how the surface beneath you seems to hold you more completely..." Depth compounds when multiple senses are engaged simultaneously. 4. Use fractionation deliberately. Bring someone partially out, then back in. The contrast sharpens the experience of depth. Many practitioners know this in theory and never use it in practice. Try it once and you'll build it into every session. 5. Let your own state lead. If you're not in a focused, slightly altered state yourself, the subject will feel it. Your coherence is the container. Before you speak a single word, take thirty seconds to arrive fully. That shift in your presence changes everything. Depth is not a technique. It's a relationship between two nervous systems. What's working for you lately? Drop it below.