If you can't contain yourself when a subject reacts strongly, if you begin to feel attracted to them, you have lost your center. If you can't contain your own emotionality, you will not be able to contain someone else's and therefore your frame will be weak. A strong frame and airtight container naturally will bring people in trance.

There are some people out there wondering why they can’t hypnotize properly or why no one wants to have experiences with them. They know all the techniques, they did the workshops, they watched all the videos, read all the books and yet, there is something about them that makes people not trust them and prevent them from surrendering. That’s LEAKY ENERGY. If that resonates with you, keep reading. Someone with leaky energy pretends to be in full integrity and fully embodied. They display their skills and knowledge only to compensate for their lack of confidence. Something in them is empty and they want to make it full. So they try to find ways to get people under their spells so they can look powerful and desirable. This whole mascarade is only a strategy to cope with their lack of self-esteem. That’s their agenda, disguized as service. However, the subconscious knows the truth and is very bad at hiding it. That’s why most of their non verbal communication says the opposite of what they try to show. People see what it presented to them, but they feel something is not aligned. The whole thing is not congruent. Soon or later, it the heat of a session, signs of what has been kept secret begins to show: a strange tone of voice, a misplaced word or hand, a lingering touch… What I want to say is that if you don’t spend time fulfilling yourself and working on your own container and making it absolutely airtight, you are taking a very dangerous road by doing this kind of work. Sooner or later, it will come back at you, hopefully before you’ve done too much damage. Mentoring or coaching are by far the best ways to improve yourself in that space. It’s almost like a must. You can’t avoid it if you’re really serious about becoming really good and give people incredible experiences with leaving them a strange aftertaste.

Another epic workshop completed at our home in Ibiza with the most beautiful group! There is something extraordinary about being in an intimate group space. I've truly upgraded my group facilitation game. The group session was truly psychedelic like nothing I've experienced before. It was weird guys...and so freaking juicy! Wow can't wait for the next workshop in Berlin 25 & 26 of July. If you want to book your spot for a workshop, please apply here: www.davidmarius.com/erotic-hypnosis-workshops - spots are super limited.

Something worth understanding about hypnosis: in my world, it isn’t a special power or mysterious force. It’s a lens, an illusion that points toward something far more profound. And that doesn’t make it any less real or any less powerful. What hypnosis actually reveals is the extraordinary capacity we already have to reshape our own minds, influence others, and alter our perception of reality. We do this constantly, without realising it. Hypnosis simply makes the process visible. The neuroscience backs this up. Research from Stanford’s Spiegel Lab using fMRI imaging has demonstrated measurable changes in brain activity during hypnosis, particularly in the prefrontal cortex and the salience network, confirming that something genuinely neurological is happening. It isn’t magic; it’s focused attention meeting expectation meeting trust. Kirsch and Lynn’s influential work in Psychological Bulletin (1995) argued compellingly that hypnotic responses are shaped largely by belief, expectancy, and social context rather than any altered state unique to hypnosis itself. Like a magic act: the trick isn’t in the hands of the magician. It lives in the perception of the audience. This is why, in practice, the only thing that ultimately matters is the response of your subject. That response is the phenomenon. Everything else, the inductions, the language patterns, the ritual of it, is scaffolding. What makes hypnosis real is what happens in the person in front of you. The rest is theatre, useful theatre, but theatre nonetheless.

At the trypexpo psychedelics and wellness convention at Funkhaus in Berlin teaching how hypno-orgasms can be used to condition expecting mothers to give birth with ecstasy🎆 It was such an emotional moment when the birth video was played. Nobody had ever witness such a peaceful birth. No blood, no scream of pain, the husband behind her laughing and firing keywords (anchors) for pleasure, the baby came in one go, no crying. just silence. it was very emotional.