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The Gay Men's Table
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13 contributions to The Gay Men's Table
Sep 17 •
Introduction
Hi, I’m Richard, 44 years old from the West Country in the UK. I enjoy creating stuff, adore music and in love with my Teddybear 🐶 bulldog ❤️ Came out of a 20 year long relationship a year ago and not enjoying the modern dating scene 😢 it’s all picture/profile first 😤 Looks before personality and the throwaway culture of modern gay relationships, ‘there’s always someone better!’. I don’t think I’m bad looking, but I have a left side disability after having a stroke from a head injury, so never get past first dates. Completely lost any confidence in finding another partner. Feeling lonely, but filling my time with building a new life after my breakup. Thought I’d come here and see if anyone has any decent advice. Rich
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Hi Richard I totally agree with you about this new generation of consumers, all terrified of aging , disability, anything basically that is not tinted rose pink with stardust ! But your difference is your strength and you hopefully will learn how to channel that into your advantage. I am lucky to be married and we have been together for 30+ years, 3 or 4 splits during that time, but today we also feel so isolated and alone , that’s why l really love this group as it attracts so many interesting people who don’t quite fit in…I am around for a chat or whatever, retired life coach .
Jul 29 •
Testostérone is abundant in Ireland
Irish men are incredibly hot , from the 20’s something to 60+ they give off some serious male energy 🙏amazing country and lovely people !
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Jul 28 •
NO Coffee hour TONIGHT Wednesday 07/27
I’m sorry, but I feel a little under the weather. We will be back on Wednesday at 11am PDT (07/29) Topic: From validation-seeking to self-trust! The parts of us that needs approval and wants to feel accepted and how we move to self trust!
1 like • Jul 28
Honey , lemon and cognac all warm will fix you up in no time 🙏🍀
Jul 8 •
Coffee Hour Call Wednesday at 11am PDT (07/08)
A new month a new overall topic. I would like to focus on overall health (mental and physical) this month. Tonight is a Brotherhood call, to get an idea of what we can expect this month and maybe share some ideas of what topics you would like to hear more about. Tonight, I would also love to brain storm a little on how personal wellbeing looks for you! Who is joining tonight's call?
1 like • Jul 8
It’s good
1 like • Jul 8
Have no idea how it works ! My blond side 😝
Jun 26 •
Where next ?
My Husband and I are in a strange situation, after 30 years of being drifters , floating from one country to another mostly in EU , we end up in Sweden because of Covid , France was so aggressive towards people who chose not to vaccinate, we moved there thinking it was cool and welcoming. Massive mistake …. Vile climate , 8 months of darkness…. I won’t bore you with the details but trust me it’s grim ! So now we want to leave …. Having 4 dogs , 2 parrots and a turtle it’s not so easy… I loved Cambodia … but that’s maybe to exotic for hubby and too hot ! Someone suggested Canada but I find their policies towards farmers and people scary …. Euthanasia etc ! So any cool ideas would be appreciated ❤️
0 likes • Jun 30
So we have decided to take a look at Ireland ! No paperwork or visa for either of us, dog /pet friendly… warm and welcoming people… cool all year round… will see if the Emerald Isle is for us 🍀
1 like • Jul 7
@Greg Henriques thanks for the input, to be fair it was more bad experiences with builders , admin and the total lack of organic food or food culture in general that finished it for us , I am sad to sell our cute little Swedish house but time to move on 👌🍀
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@andrew-chidgey-3222
Mid fifties , married , had a complicated life .Took years of therapy to burry the nightmares of sexual abuse as a child . Not vaccinated, and proud
Active 4d ago
Joined Apr 19, 2026
Sweden