as a man, you're allowed to try to become attractive. in fact, you are trying to become attractive - you know it would boost almost all areas of your life. but you don't try as much as you could because it means accepting you're currently not - which makes you ashamed. realise that, besides genetic lottery winners, attractive men worked to be attractive. fragrance. environment. body language speech. face, style physique. they realised working on their Aesthetics was as worthwhile a goal as any other. they realised it affects how they're perceived - how they perceive themselves. and then worked towards mastering them. don't apologise for wanting to improve people's perception of you. don't apologise for wanting to live well. - TMLSN

if you want to transform into a completely new person, fix who you are at your lowest. when you're alone - when you stop trying because nobody except you is looking. that's when your mask slips and your true self steps out - and your habits, standards, and principles drop. that's when a single tweak becomes revolutionary. give yourself 3-6 months to pay conscious attention to every action you feel like taking in these states. pour the entirety of your soul into it - and feel the painful sting of choosing the right one every single time. when you wake up thirsty to kill any weakness in yourself - those are the times 6 years are compressed into 6 months. if you truly want what you say you do - accept this rite of passage before it's too late. - TMLSN

you feel like a loser - because you're lost. and you feel lost - because you don't know what ‘winning’ means to you. the dream life thought in your head is a dream - a dream cannot become real. the dream life written in your journal is a goal - a goal can become real. write down steps to your goal - and your days stop being directionless. they become another chance to inch closer to it. your life goes from being a line - to being an arrow - it takes shape. it has a point - and points to something. do you not realise how powerful that makes you feel? your life - and everything in it - finally makes sense. – TMLSN

most people settle. those with an impressive physique have no social life. those with the money you want are either fat or skinny. those attracting the girls you want are unhealthy, and those with the physical ability you want are broke. they all settle - they drop everything to master one thing and abandon the rest - which is why you say “i want what they have”, and not “i want their lives.” if you could, you’d group all of their mastered areas of life into one - yours. you've never actually tried, because you assumed it was impossible. it isn’t. why are you settling? with how fast you can now learn, implement, and refine every action you take using technology and AI, it’s the easiest time in history to master everything. go all in.

too many people die without realising they could’ve done far more. but school, society, or just their own lack of vision put them in a labelled box:the lawyer. doctor. artist. bodybuilder. you could be next. refuse to be a specialist. humans are generalists. we don’t exist to build mastery in one specific function, job, or environment - to do this is to give up the very thing that makes you human, in order to become a specialist - which is exactly what an insect is. if you have breath, refuse to play it safe. aim to master every skill that matters, not one or two. your craft. knowledge. spirituality. fighting ability. health. conditioning. metacognition. that’s the real mission.