The Great Hair Product Graveyard 🪦
Let me tell you about my friend Keisha. Beautiful. Smart. Melanin poppin'. ✨ Type 4c hair that could defy gravity on a good day and the laws of physics on a bad one. 🌀 Keisha's bathroom looked like a product graveyard. I'm talking: - 14 half-used curl creams (none of them worked) 🧴 - 9 edge controls (her edges said "no thank you") 🚫 - 23 oils (because if one oil is good, 23 is better, right?) 🫒 - A leave-in conditioner from 2019 that she SWEARS she'll finish 📅 - And my personal favorite: a $47 "miracle" butter that smelled like someone's basement had an identity crisis 💀 Every time I visited, there was a NEW product. A new brand. A new influencer who promised THIS one was different. 📦 "Girl, this one is specifically for Type 4 hair!" she'd say, holding up a jar like it was the Holy Grail. 🏆 Two weeks later? Same jar. Same problem. Different disappointment. 😤 One day I asked her: "Keisha... have you ever stopped to think that maybe it's not about finding the RIGHT product... but understanding what your hair actually NEEDS first?" 🤔 Cue the dramatic pause ⏸️ "What do you mean?" she asked, side-eyeing me like I'd just suggested she cut it all off. 👀 "Like... do you even know if your hair needs moisture or protein right now? Do you know what's causing the breakage? Are you just throwing products at problems you haven't even diagnosed?" 💧 Y'all. The LOOK on her face. 😳 She got quiet. Then she hit me with: "So you're telling me I've been out here buying solutions to problems I don't even understand?" BINGO. 🎯 Here's the thing, Melaninaires: Most of us are Keisha. 💁🏾♀️ We're not lazy. We're not careless. We're just trying to fix things without actually understanding what we're looking at. 🔍 So we end up: - Buying actives for skin barriers that are already compromised 🧴 - Layering protein on hair that's begging for moisture 💧 - Following routines made for someone else's biology 🧬 - And wondering why nothing sticks 🤷🏾♀️ It's not a product problem. It's an interpretation problem. 🧠