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Week 6 — Standards Test
This week is not about motivation. It’s a test. You will choose one standard from the list below and live up to it for 7 days. No substitutions. No reinterpretation. Choose ONE: - Training: minimum 30 minutes, 3 days, no skipping - Nutrition: no eating standing up or distracted, every meal - Sleep: lights off by a fixed time, 5 nights minimum - Movement: 8,000 steps daily, no averaging - Phone: no phone after 9pm, 5 nights You check in daily under this post with: DONE or NOT DONE No explanations. If you miss a day, you still report and continue. This is not about being impressive. It’s about being reliable. That is a challenge. Adults feel this immediately.
2 likes • 22h
8000 steps daily, today I went for a walk on my lunch break.
Week 5 — Reliability over intensity
This week, the standard shifts. Not more effort. More reliability. Your focus for the next 7 days: Do the thing you already know works, without negotiating. Same behavior. Same standard. Even when motivation drops. Daily check-in: One line on how you stayed reliable today.
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Today I stayed reliable by pushing myself out of my comfort zone and tried a new CrossFit gym so I keep my word to myself on my fitness goals.
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@Izzy Turk thank you Izzy!
Standards show before words do
Self-trust doesn’t come from saying what you value. It comes from what you no longer tolerate. Today’s reflection: What is one thing you stopped excusing or negotiating with yourself this week? Keep it concrete. One line is enough.
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I am not sure that I have fully stopped negotiating with myself, I do notice when I start doing it. For example, I told myself I would go for a long walk this morning but as soon as I started I started negotiating, mainly because I didn't prep accordingly, and shortened my initial distance. I am taking the win in that I went for a walk and also noticing that I am not always keeping my word.
When growth feels quiet
A lot of people expect growth to feel obvious. Motivating. Energizing. Loud. But often, the real shift feels quieter than expected. You react less. You rush less. You explain less. Today’s question: What feels quieter in you this week — and how do you know it’s growth, not stagnation? One honest line is enough.
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I'm noticing that I put less weight on external validation.
Week 4 Challenge — Let it show
Last week was about staying. This week is about letting it show. For the next 7 days, your challenge is simple: Let your self-trust show through one visible behavior. Not a declaration. Not a promise. A behavior. Examples: - You follow through without announcing it - You hold a boundary you usually soften - You stop explaining a decision you already made - You move calmly where you used to rush Each day, post: - 1–2 lines describing how it showed - No overthinking - No perfection Examples of what a daily check-in might look like: • “I stopped over-explaining a decision I already made.” • “I followed through on what I said I’d do, even though no one was watching.” • “I held a boundary instead of softening it to be liked.” One or two lines is enough. Clarity over polish. That’s it. This is about recognition, not performance.
3 likes • 13d
I am traveling for work so my routine is upside down, but I kept with my promise to myself to make good food choices while traveling.
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Alicia Ploquin
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@alicia-ploquin-1110
French expat in Kelowna, mom of 1 trying to figure myself out!

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