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Deconstructing with Aleeza

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What kind of ancestor will you be?
All this. Having Thomas Jefferson be an atrocious yet revered (not by me) colonizing ancestor of mine, I strive to be the kind of person that would make him turn in his own grave. Original post from Chamieka House-Osuya 👇🔽 "I don’t usually write on Sundays, but I’ve been sitting with something I can’t put down. It came out of a wonderful conversation I had recently, and I keep turning it over: what would it actually mean for white people to be good ancestors? When I first heard the phrase “good ancestor,” it didn’t feel simple or inspiring. It felt heavy. Not because it’s some new concept, but because it put words to something a lot of us have been going around for years without ever saying out loud. We keep having the same conversations about race and history. They keep falling apart in the same spots every single time. That exhaustion is real and it adds up. It does not level off the more you go through it. It gets heavier, especially when you are being honest and what you get back is defensiveness instead of any real reflection. A lot of white folks hear these conversations and immediately turn inward in entirely the wrong way. They are not reflective or curious, but merely protective, making it about defending themselves instead of facing what is being said. And then we end up completely stuck, because the focus shifts to their fragile feelings, and the actual harm never gets dealt with. It just sits there, unchallenged and unchanged, while everyone argues around it in circles. That is the pull in two directions at once: wanting to be honest about what is real, while knowing how quickly honesty gets shut down when it feels too close. Still, if anything is going to move, there has to be a way forward for the people who are actually willing to do something different. It cannot be a way that makes it easier, but just a way that keeps the responsibility exactly where it belongs. The idea of being a good ancestor does that in a way that feels incredibly grounded and real. Being a good ancestor means not looking away, but sitting with what came before you and being honest about what you’ve gained from it. It is a defining decision point where you either continue what was handed down, or you actively interrupt it.
What kind of ancestor will you be?
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Excellent piece.
Beah Richards: A Black Woman Speaks of White Womanhood
Here’s a link to Beah Richards poem: http://www.drmomma.org/2015/02/beah-richards-black-woman-speaks-of.html?m=1
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Thanks for sharing this Amy- I haven’t come across it nor its author previously and it connects to the Doc we saw yesterday. It’s extremely insightful, hard-hitting and carries a deep truth about gender, race under white supremacy. There is a visceral, unspeakable emotional deep pain here I feel - a line from yesterday “our blood is in these lands” - and from the poem about breast-feeding - the YT babies - These realities are circling me - I must say - Appreciate the share.
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I also have a habit of rereading my response (like the one above) a few times to several times after posting. It’s a long held habit - I’ve been curious about its motivations / roots - someone mentioned maybe it’s a brain habit to lessen the chances of not fitting in / being accepted by the environment in which it is given - in short - I’ve worried a lot about being accepted - it’s an interesting theory. Apologies for the monologuing - that’s also a long held habit.
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@Aleeza McCant you know - sometimes as I get older and look back at what I stretched for - as an explanation, or belief or truth about something or a theory that felt right - I realise to some degree - that over time - as we learn more - we find - or certainly I find - that - it’s almost like something to placate yourself with - that when the waves crash - it’s something to hold on to - a mother’s hand, an anchor of some sort so the feeling that you might blow into the waters doesn’t overwhelm You - It’s like the feeling I got when I resonated with a certain passage or point or concept in a book or movie - in that moment it feels like my life has changed - Until it inevitably comes back to the ground until the next time that kind of resonance throws us up (lifts us) from the ground again. Like a child getting caught in the wind at times - For most of my life I wasn’t acquainted with trauma, then it came in and led me to go through parts of my life again, childhood homes, journeys retaken - lots of books read and things examined - I know of the term today but it doesn’t mean much - until the next time I find the ground beneath me give way in some sense -
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