If you’re in a relationship where the love is there but the pleasure feels quieter, this conversation is for you. I’m teaching Keeping the Spark Alive at the Power of Pleasure Summit — a free, 2-day online event (Feb 11–12) about intimacy, desire, and the Power of Pleasure Join us https://www.sexreimagined.com/a/2148204064/BDGmZtFa

Good morning. An invitation to play. As always, this is about curiosity. Today’s prompt: What helps your body feel sexy or confident when no one else is watching?

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