My ex left me, my 2 kids won’t speak to me, lost my job, my car and my house yet I am still standing. Going through the storm, you don’t understand why, then you begin to KNOW why and it becomes easier to surrender each day, each moment to God. You understand that it is God’s will for you. Now I KNOW that He will turn all my pain into joy and all my chaos into peace as only He could in His perfect timing. We have to let go and trust that if what you lost is for you then it will come back to you.