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Becoming Brothers Academy

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6 contributions to Becoming Brothers Academy
What would you like more of?
Hey gents, truly a pleasure to have so many familiar faces back together last night! As we mentioned on the call, we are trying to build a community here, not just to preach to you all about what we know. In the spirit of building something together, what would you like to see more of in this space? We are intending to create video content to support the group calls and spark conversation. That will be especially important as the group continues to grow. We have a few options to keep the calls feeling intimate as the group grows in size. 1. Create a required lvl to join the call, meaning you have to engage, get likes to lvl up before you get access 2. Paid tiers, this function is in the pipeline in skool to have multiple tiers of access within the same community. This will allow us to create different offerings and maintain and concentrated group in some calls 3. Add more opportunities for calls knowing that not everyone will join all of them. This is never going to be the equivalent of a weekly circle with the same men, but through regular participation and engagement there is the opportunity to create familiarity and support for each other to move powerfully towards what you are trying to create in your life. Many of our one-on-one clients are in this space to also be in a community structure that speaks the same language. Ontological Transformation is anchored into the world through action with the premise that in order to create the impossible, we must also transform along the way. This is why we also utilize modalities like breathwork, tantra, qi gong, meditation, human design etc. What, of the offerings below would serve you the most right now to move your life and projects forward?
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3 likes • Oct 15
OK so here's something that just came up for me. (i.e; my semi regular shit-disturbing post). Regarding Ontological Coaching. Reko, you mention Ontology is the study of the nature of being. The study of Being (capital-B). Yet I hear you say the coaching approach is about helping with "who you want to be". Ontology is not about facilitating an action "to be". It's about investigating Beingness. So it feels to me like there's confusion built into the very core of this approach to coaching..? It seems what you're coaching is actually helping with "Doing". Doing your life to get to where you want to be. The essence of Being is metaphysical. It is not a verb. Ontology is self-inquiry, insight into the fundamental questions of existence. As I'm sure y'all know. So... I have questions. Welcoming any corrections or insights to help me understand deeper!
2 likes • Oct 16
@Reko Vitae I hear you!
Fall Cleansing
I'm doing a 1 day colon cleanse kit today, I've done one each of the past two months while keeping a super clean diet in between. They are insanely effective at clearing uneliminated digestive waste and plaque. Today I'm also starting a dieta with the bobisana tincture. I've never done this before, but it is used for grief and heart opening. I've been processing a lot of grief as I resolve the vision dysfunction that has been throwing a wrench into my life since I was 15. So let's see how it goes! I'll report more on this as I go!
Fall Cleansing
1 like • Oct 1
Love that! Share key ingredients?
Welcome! Introduce yourself + share a pic of yourself
Let's get to know each other! Comment below sharing where you are in the world, a photo of yourself, and a project you're currently working on, book you're reading, or hobby that you enjoy. ☀️🌲
1 like • Sep 30
@David Stock I don't think I've met a single friend online, now that I think of it.
0 likes • Oct 1
I think at least few more hours are needed before friendship is achieved in that regard
Efficiency
What does it mean to be efficient? I found this definition that speaks to my desire for a more focused life: Acting or producing effectively with a minimum of waste, expense, or unnecessary effort.
3 likes • Sep 30
I feel some resistance to using the word efficiency, linking it to the capitalist tendency to prioritize results over process. For instance, traditional fine furniture making versus modern factory process. One is much less efficient, and yet more real, connected, and human. So I don't want to be efficient. Passionate? Yes. Skilled? Yes. Persistent? Yes.
3 likes • Oct 1
@Reko Vitae well yes there's the reality of being unskilled versus skilled. And a certain level of efficiency occurs as one increases skill. So I can't ignore that. But you will never get maximum or even medium efficiency hand making a didg. So I guess what I am saying is that focus on efficiency as the highest goal can lead to an emptiness of meaning, emptiness of form, in the pursuit of the bottom line.
3 likes • Oct 1
Either have purpose or do not have purpose. Stay clear of the middle ground however.
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Adrian Tomei
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Recent West Coast --> southern AB transplant looking for love

Active 54d ago
Joined Aug 17, 2025