Thank you to those of you who attended the call yesterday. Great questions and discussion. If you were live on the call, I am offering you a free online dating photo review. Feel free to submit your photos to me by Friday Jan 23rd. Drop the word "Photos" in the comments, and I'll send you instructions. I'll have feedback for you next week. In the meantime, feel free to use the Online Dating Strategist GPT for a quick analysis. It's honestly quite good. 💥😀

Let's get to know each other! Comment below sharing where you are in the world, a photo of you , and something you like to do for fun. 😊 This post contains important information about getting the most out of this community, so please read through everything before you start. 👓 ✨ Read Through Our Community Guidelines ✨ First and foremost, please read through our Community Guidelines to ensure this remains a valuable, supportive space for everyone. Quick Summary: - Be respectful and kind - No soliciting or self-promotion - Keep it relevant to dating/relationships - Protect privacy - no sharing screenshots - What's shared here, stays here 📈 How To Earn Points, Level Up & Unlock Rewards 📈 Our community is designed around participation. You'll unlock new resources and perks as you engage, support, and help other members. How Points Work: - One 'like' = One point - The more you interact and contribute quality content, the more points you earn - Your level is shown at the bottom right of your avatar picture - Points needed for next level shown under your avatar on your profile page 💎 Important Note About DMs 💎 The ability to DM other community members is unlocked at Level 2 (Cotton). So if you want to stay connected and build relationships in this community, start earning your first points now! Please contact me with any comments, suggestions, or questions. I read everything! Let's reboot your love life together, Dessi 💕

Hey friends, I’d love to hear where you're at on your dating journey right now. Whether you’re in the 30-Day Re-Entry program (Premium fam 👋), or you’re here exploring and feeling it out — we’re all moving forward together, in our own ways. Which one feels most true for you this week? PS. Those of you who are Premium members, make sure to check out the Online Dating Essentials Kit in the Classroom. Many of your questions will be answered there. Pic of resources is attached.

What is your go to first online dating question?

👉 What would future-me thank me for doing today? You don’t need to do everything today. You just need to do one small, intentional thing that makes the next 7 days easier. Choose ONE action below (or post your own): - Connect: Send one thoughtful message to someone you’re curious about - Refine: Make one small update to your profile (a photo, a sentence, or an answer to a prompt). - Clarify: Journal for 10 minutes on this question:“If dating felt calm and aligned, what is one thing I would do today?” - Regulate: Do something today that helps your nervous system feel steadier before you take action (walk, breathe, stretch, look at a picture you like or listen to a song ...). LMK, what is one small action you can commit to that future you will thank you for?