Hi Groupies, I felt like a "Goober" missing this event tonight. I was looking forward to this and I knew it was 6:00 PM, but I forgot this was an EST, not a CST. What a GOOOOOOOOBERRRRRRR move I made tonight. As I frantically hoped to catch the latter part, I couldn't find the zoom link to sign in because it went to junk E-Mail. W T F!!! What a funky drag to end a Tuesday. This reminds me of some of the online dates I had when I got ghosted a couple of times. This "lady" on one date wanted nothing but a free meal from a 5-star restaurant, followed by a $200 liquor tab then she complains how sore her back was and snored all night when we returned to the hotel room. Forget the intimacy, we never kissed. When I realized the second night was gonna be a repeat of the first, I got up at 3:00 AM to shower and woke her ass up to say "HEY!" I'm leaving. "It's clear there's no chemistry here. Keep the booze, you can stay until check out but I'm gonna be like Michael Jackson and BEAT IT". Five minutes later after I left, she calls me on my cell. I'm thinking maybe she has a change of heart. N O T 🫣. She wanted to know if I paid for her parking space at the hotel. W T F again🤬. As I pondered about this disappointing weekend that cost me nearly a $1K for food, liquor and entertainment and she's worried if her car parking space was paid. As I was driving away from the hotel garage, a tow truck guy put a boot on it. I told her with a chuckle, "You're cool, like the other side of the pillow, BYE, See Ya' 🫡. That's Karma for ya. I hope my rant put a smile and a laugh on somebody's face. Like Kevin Hart, laughing at my pain is therapeutic. I hope to see your smile faces on the right TIME ZONE next time😊. Maybe Sista' Dessi will cut me slack for the next time since this date was all paid up when I just got a fresh shave too! Damn, sounds like another crappy date🤔. OK, it's getting late and I gotta get up early tomorrow. So, I'll make like a tree & leave☺️or be like a banana and split 😂. STOP 🫷GOOD NIGHT 😴🛌

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Wow I agree on all of your take aways here. It’s amazing how much I got hit on when I was married and actively parenting. Now, divorced nearly 5 years later after a 27 year marriage I never thought dating would be so hard. Online dating was a mixed bag. Clearly it helped me defined my values and what I want in a relationship; looking for my FLP ( friend, lover and partner). Albeit simple finding that compatible woman remains elusive but optimistic. At my age I do my best to avoid women with toxicity, vengeance and superficial taste. I am a sapiosexual Buffalo Soldier who dates purposefully and employs a “we” mentality. My warning flags always alarms me when I am getting to know a woman with only a “me” attitude. It not just about you it’s about US. Simple but difficult to understand. Again, for me your take home messages confirms the right “head” is thinking clearly 🥰.

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