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22 contributions to Functional Human Design
Gate 18: From Wounds of Criticism to the Gift of Discernment
Day 3 of journaling ✨ Gate 18 — The Gate of Correction ✨ For most of my life, criticism was my biggest fear. If someone pointed something out, I’d take it so personally that I’d change entire parts of my life trying to “correct my mistakes.” It wasn’t until grad school — when I was finally surrounded by people who wanted to be around me, who were genuinely interested in me — that I realized: who I am is actually pretty cool. I didn’t need to constantly fix myself to earn love or belonging. These past few years of journaling, exploring, and dating myself have built such a strong sense of identity. Now when criticism comes, my first instinct is still anxiety (old conditioning), but the “window” between reaction and discernment is much shorter. I ask myself: - Does this person know me well enough to be offering correction? - Is this constructive feedback, or just someone projecting from a small glimpse of me? That pause changes everything. Instead of collapsing into old fears of not fitting in, I can use my Gate 18 gift to filter what’s useful and release what isn’t. 💡 Reflection for the group:How do you experience the energy of correction in your life? Do you notice a “window” between your initial reaction and your more grounded response?
Gate 18: From Wounds of Criticism to the Gift of Discernment
3 likes • Oct 5
I grew up with a super critical mom. Criticism stings. But, I've learned to take a breath and look at it. Is it true or a reflection of them? Can I use it to improve? Does this person know me week enough to have a valid opinion? How much do I care about this person and their opinions? My biggest critic is in my head and she sounds just like my mom. Next time I hear her, I'm going to have a conversation with her. Help her heal and find a new role.
We had a grand baby!!! 🥳🥳🥳
I have been praying that she would be a cycle breaker. We have five generations of oldest girl having a manifesting generator, oldest girl. We are a LOT. 😵‍💫🫣🤣 And she is breaking cycles already!!! 🥳🥳🥳 She a 6/2 like me! And we seem to only get one left angle that skips generations. Left angle cross of healing! 😭😍😍😍 Sweet baby projector!!!
We had a grand baby!!! 🥳🥳🥳
2 likes • Sep 26
@Jes Divine Congratulations! We are twinning again! My granddaughter's birthday is 9/25/2017. She turned 8 yesterday. I love her Libra energy! She's a 6/2 Generator. She has so much energy! She gets up and runs around to burn it off. We call it the Zoomies.
1 like • Sep 26
@Jes Divine She's our only Libra. We have 3 Sagittarius, 4 Aries, 1 Aquarius, and 1 Libra.
Let's Celebrate Jess Lloyd!!! Human Hub Highlight!
Ooooo, @Jess Lloyd makes my witchy heart giggle!!! The quote in her bio, takes me back to my time alone in the wilderness, redefining my femininity and uncovering my power. “Stir. Rise. Remember. The woman within returns as buried selves awaken, voices rise, and midlife women rediscover their magic.” Her community, The Sacred Cauldron, is a cozy, powerful space for midlife women to reclaim their power, realign energy, and transform with intuition, science, and wholehearted support. Ladies, did you go through a season of reclaiming your wild femininity?
Let's Celebrate Jess Lloyd!!! Human Hub Highlight!
3 likes • Sep 26
@Wendy Lee-Chu Thank you! It has been so much fun creating it!
1 like • Sep 26
@Sarah Hankins Thank you! I love your enegy!
Human Design + Body Pain
I haven't had access to the knowledge of Biology's connection to Human Design. I know there are quite a few HD experts here! Who has been studying this? What are your experiences connecting HD to your physical health? As I've been playing... more like, crying, laughing, celebrating, then crying again... With Vita the Human Design Bot, I've been learning so much more about my specific chemistry. For DECADES, my shoulders and hips have knots, large knots. I work on them daily, stretch, dance, and move to keep my energy flowing. What I didn't understand was HOW my undefined areas, mirrored my body, and blocked my expression, emotions, and power. 🤯 I can not tell you HOW MANY DOCTORS HAVE STUDIED MY BODY. I have received MANY brand deals and sponsorships with specialists, trying to understand why I have lived through multiple near death experiences, severe complex trauma, and have tons of energy! For some reason, I handle stress really well, but my body has built a shell that no specialist has been able to resolve. But check this out!!! 😭😭😭 I HAVE ANSWERS! That lands with precision, Jes — because in your design, those two blocks (sacral response + throat expression) are actually mechanically linked. Let’s map how your hips and shoulders carry both sides of the same Root-stress loop: 1. Hips = Blocked Response - Root → Sacral loop: Your hips are holding the false urgency of your open Root, locking down your sacral responsiveness. - When the sacral can’t move freely, your body doesn’t hum its natural “yes/no”. Instead, you get frustration or numb signals. - Somatically: hip knots = your sacral “voice” silenced before it even reaches the throat. 2. Shoulders = Blocked Expression - Sacral → Throat (20/34 channel): Once the sacral is stuck, the throat can’t express it cleanly. - Your shoulders absorb the “backlog” of unexpressed power, bracing against both the anger (from your manifestor side) and frustration (from the generator side). - Somatically: shoulder knots = your throat “voice” clamped down, either bursting out in intensity or staying silent.
Human Design + Body Pain
2 likes • Sep 25
Guess "what?"! I have the same pain! Not a big surprise since we have similar charts. I currently have a big ass cramp in my left hip. Walking has been helping to loosen it. I'm gonna try the suggestions you got to see if I can't get it to release some more.
Happy Monday!!! Schedule change!
We have a live call in 30 minutes! We are conserving energy and only doing three calls per week, check out the calendar. Are you at Level 4? Have you had your interview yet? Check out the Human Hub! We have some fun things in the works!!! I'm so stoked for this week!!!
Happy Monday!!! Schedule change!
2 likes • Sep 22
I'm glad you are cutting down the number of meetings. I don't know how you had the energy to do that much. Having awareness and following your energy gives up a permission slip to do the same.
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