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97 contributions to I AM Tribe | Health & Identity
Day 63/84 - FOCUS AND EXECUTION → AWARENESS
One Thing I Have Been Avoiding: Giving myself permission to live my own life without being held back by guilt, approval or other peoples expectations. How This Has Been Affecting Me: I delay things that matter to me, put my own needs last and let guilt or fear of disappointing others influence my decisions. What Stood Out to Me: I just need to start making one choice at a time that reflects the life I actually want. Today I proved: I AM someone who faces what I have been avoiding because I am a woman who chooses herself, keeps promises and take action even when it's uncomfortable. I face it. I do it. I keep my word
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One choice at a time is exactly how it changes. Keep going, you're doing the work 🌿
Day 56/84 - VALUES → AWARENESS
A Few Things That Matter Most to Me: Faith My Family My health Peace and freedom Living with purpose What Stood Out: I need my life to reflect my values and not my intentions What Surprised Me: I realized that peace and freedom matter to me, but they are not at the top of my list. Today I proved: I AM someone who gets clear on what matters because I refuse to live out of alignment with who I am.
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Day 51/84 - LETTING GO → UNDERSTANDING
One Emotional Weight I Am Exploring: The grief, guilt and regret I've been carrying from my past. What It Represents to Me: Freedom from the past without denying it. Why It Has Been Difficult to Release: Because this mean I need to face feelings I have survived by putting it aside. The Part I Can Control: I can't change my past, but I can choose how I heal, how I live and who I become. My Biggest Realization: That I must focus on what belongs to me today not on what I wish I could change about yesterday. Today I proved: I AM someone who reflects honestly on what I carry because I refuse to let my past carry me.
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Proud of you for doing this work. Facing the grief instead of putting it aside takes real strength, well done Adri
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Day 48/84 - BOUNDARIES → CONSISTENCY
The Yes Pattern I Am Changing: Saying yes automatically. The Response I Used or Practised: I need some time to think about that. What I Learned: I don't need to please others by saying automatically yes. My New Decision Filter: I say yes to commitments that align with my priorities. My Response Going Forward: When plans that disrupt my routine happens, I will pause before I answer. Today I proved: I AM someone who protects my time and energy because my priorities deserve my attention.
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Day 48/84 ...it looks like a lucky number...36 Days to go! So proud of you, keep pushing, keep doing the work. Rooting for you!
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@Adri Van Staden you've got this. Hard weeks are where the real growth happens, face whatever comes and you'll come out stronger on the other side.💪
Day 36/84 - RELATIONSHIPS → AWARENESS
One Relationship Pattern I Noticed: I take responsibility for other people's emotions and often put my own needs aside to avoid conflict, guilt or upsetting them. How This Pattern Affects My Energy: It drains me because I feel like I always have to manage their reactions, moods and needs. I don't feel like I have enough space to protect my own peace and energy. What Stood Out to Me: I realised that loving someone does not mean I have to carry their emotions or abandon my own needs. Today I proved: I AM someone who reflects honestly on my relationships because I am committed to understanding my patterns, protecting my energy and becoming the woman I want to be.
3 likes • Sep 3
@Adri Van Staden You can still love someone without taking on all their emotions too. You are doing beautiful work, Keep going Adri🌼
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