I want to ask a question. How often do you practice gratitude? Are you someone who looks for the good in the midst of the hard? Do you struggle to see anything positive when life is hard? Let's take a minute to look at this issue. Gratitude is an attitude. It is a choice we make on how we handle what happens to us and the events in our lives. Life can be really hard and filled with pain and disappointment. When I say gratitude is a choice I am not saying we should ignore the feelings of sadness, righteous indignation, pain, loss, etc. These feelings need to be owned and processed because they are real. However, there is something that lingers in the midst of these that can reflect a core part of our approach to life and that is our mindset on how we will allow it to affect our future. The most inspirational people I know are the ones who have a practice of gratitude. They look for things to be thankful for daily. I have a friend, Alli, who started a gratitude group during covid with 4 friends. Every day they send a text of 8 things they are grateful for in their lives. This group has been going on for 5 years and they not missed one day. When I asked her what her biggest takeaway has been, she said that she is able to get through the hard things more easily. She said the circumstances may not change but her ability to handle them does. Several years ago I had a traumatic accident. My left hand was severed from my wrist internally. The recovery from this accident was grueling at best. The situation got worse and four months into it, I broke my shoulder on my right side. I live alone so you can imagine the situation I was in. However, I made a conscious choice daily to be thankful. I chose to believe I was healing in spite of the pain. I was grateful for my daughter who was so unselfish and attentive ( the accident happened 3 weeks before her wedding), friends who would drive me to the dr. and sent gift cards to help with meals. I was grateful for uber and door dash. I was especially grateful I was created to push through hard things and trust in what I could not see. After 18 months of hard work, my recovery was at 98%. I will always believe gratitude, my faith, and hard work at rehab are the reasons I recovered.