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I am a Keptie, kept by God first. I value honor and accountability. My softness and grace are my strengths. I activate my standards of excellence in anything I endeavor to accomplish.

@Dionna Washington, I can apply this with disappearing, correct?

This is another limitation I am grateful I waited to process. If you had asked me in May, I would have disagreed that this was something I carried. But on this journey, we often encounter people who become direct reflections of us. The fear sounds like this: If he sees too much, he may use it against me. If he knows my softness, he may mishandle it. If I let myself be fully known, I may lose control. If I become fully visible, I may no longer be safe. This limitation reveals the part of me that learned visibility had to be managed. It shows me where I have confused being seen with being exposed, and where I have believed that softness makes me vulnerable to harm instead of available for connection. But I am learning that being deeply seen does not automatically make me unsafe. It simply requires discernment. I do not have to hide to stay protected. I can be known slowly, wisely, and with the people who have shown they can handle my truth with care.

About a month ago, I stated that over the next 10 days, I was going to confront 10 love limitations. Of course, life got busy. I am back today to continue, but I am beyond grateful because what I would have said back in May is not what I would say today. Love Limitation #2: "If I relax too much, everything could fall apart." I recently met someone, and this is not to say he is or is not my forever person, but he is always telling me, "I got you. Turn off your brain." The hardest part of all of this is that it feels easy. It feels natural. Because of that, I keep waiting for the other shoe to drop. As I am writing this, I realize this is exactly what he sensed when he said I give off "strong independent woman" energy and asked if I could let go and trust him. This was right on time. Because the limitation is not really that everything will fall apart if I relax. The limitation is believing that if I relax, stop holding everything together, and allow someone to help carry the weight, he'll leave. That somehow my value is in what I carry. That if I stop performing strength, I risk losing love. And maybe that is the real battle. Learning that being cared for does not make me less worthy of staying for. Learning that I do not have to earn love by carrying everything alone.