Why āHealthyā Still Feels Hard (And What To Do About It)
š« Forget Resolutions. Design Your Defaults. New Yearās resolutions? Not really our thing. But the New Year is an amazing checkpoint to pause, reflect, and get intentional about what matters mostāincluding your health and well-being. ā Why Resolutions Donāt Stick Most resolutions fail because they try to force ānew youā behavior into āold youā systems. Your routines, environment, and social circle are wired for your current habits. Without changing the setup, your brain will keep snapping back to whatās familiar. Instead of a long wish list for January 1st, letās design a different container for your life: - Shift your daily defaults (sleep, food, movement, stress relief) - Tweak your environment so the healthy choice becomes the easy choice - Add people + tools that supportānot sabotageāyour goals šÆ No, You Donāt Have To Dump Your Friends Weāre not asking you to ghost your group chat. We are asking you to be intentional about adding a few people to your circle who share your goals and speak the same āwellness language.ā Think of it like this: - Keep your fun, day-ones - Build a health crew that makes it normal to talk about blood pressure, sleep, walking, food choices, stress, and long-term energy This community is one place to build that circle on purpose, not by accident. š The Last 30 Days Of This Year Instead of waiting for January, letās use the last 30 days of this year as a planning lab for better wellness in 2026. Not a crash makeoverājust clear, thoughtful design. Hereās the invitation: - Reflect: What actually worked (even a little) for your health this year? What clearly didnāt? - Decide: For 2026, what are your top 2ā3 (not 20) priorities for your health and well-being? - Design: What needs to shift in your routines, environment, or circle so those priorities are realistic? š¬ Drop This In The Comments: 1. One health priority for 2026 2. One thing you know needs to change in your environment or circle to support it š If you add āHelp me plan this,ā the community will help you turn it into a real, simple 30āday setup for a stronger 2026. If someone asks for help, please share your ideas and what worked for you. This is you helping each other, not MyLera having all the answers (we don't).