@Jinan Akh Ameen ya rab. Ya Subhanallah the human body is fascinating. I never liked science growing up but recently I pivoted to alternative medicine after years of dealing with health issues, and subhanallah, Allah designed us for intricately and our body systems are much more nuanced and connected and complex than modern medicine makes it seem. Like the idea of seeing a specialist for each body part is actually so backwards and I think that’s why there’s sicker humans. You know what makes me sad, the amount of women with serious hormonal issues and now you see it with younger women. Makes me sad. May Allah give every sick person shifaa

@Jinan Akh Ameen ya rab. I completely agree. People are waking up and I like to remind myself and others that medicine is not an exact science. Like you said what works for some doesn’t always work with everybody. My favorite GP that I’ve ever had was the one that told me he didn’t know and would take the time to research instead of gaslighting me which many many many drs have done

@Habibatul Aulia I think Subhanallah sometimes I get frustrated when I can’t financially access something I feel would support me in getting to where I’m going and sometimes, when there’s a lot piled on, I make it mean that I’m not worthy. But the reality is, it just means it’s not the path I’m meant to go down. That’s all! And then you find out there’s other more accessible paths and alhamdulillah when Allah closes a door, Al-Hadi will guide you to what you need instead. Just posting in case anyone else needs to hear this.

@Aseel Himeidan Ameen ya rab

@Aseel Himeidan it’s true though if you think about it. That’s why for women, some of the advice is get married to someone at your level because otherwise, it’s a lot of compromise. Granted for some it’s fine and you’re willing but to compromise but at the time that this came up, the guy was asking me to compromise even more with my rights and to me it already felt like a huge compromise that I eventually had to walk away. Now with all the clarity of the world, I know I’m willing to compromise but the bar is set and for being in my 30s, I’m not asking for a mansion. Literally basic Islamic rights and I know what is comfortable for me and what isn’t alhamdulillah. Like it shouldn’t feel like I’m starting from scratch after I’ve been able to give myself a certain lifestyle on my own with very minimal inconsistent support from family for the last 11yrs

@Aseel Himeidan yesss! I heard that Hadith too. And I was the same. Did me, I’ve also been able to provide for myself a certain standard, so why accept waaay less when it makes no sense to

@Sadia Riaz ok I’ll check it out. Jazakallah khair

@E H ya Subhanallah how that happens. May Allah make it easy for you and give you th sabr and guidance through it all

@Sadia Riaz halfourdeen and I believe muzz had it as well. I haven’t been on muzz for a while though so not sure if it’s still a thing

@Sadia Riaz wa iyaki <3