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12 contributions to The Drowning Man
Timeless wisdom
If i borrow a line and say attachment is suffering, you guys will think I am saying give up on pussy. I’m not saying that at all. In fact the opposite, get ready to get so much pussy you’re going to need to get tested. Often. No, the meme breaks down at the level of your desire for a specific outcome as opposed to present enjoyment of the moment without a grasping need to go and promise yourself or others that the moment will last forever. Finally, comforting security. Let it go. Breathe in the pleasure of the moment, and let it go.
Timeless wisdom
3 likes • 2d
For me, attachment to outcomes was always due to a sense of control. That I had the power to govern the future. It came from a sense of instability and insecurity. If I did not get this one thing, be it grades, jobs, or relationships. What did it say about me? I was reminded of two quotes, one from Kung Fu Panda and the other from the bible. In the movie, it said, and I am summing it here, give up the illusion of control, a peach tree will be a peach tree no matter where you plant it. The Bible says, "Don't worry about tomorrow; today has enough to worry about." Let tomorrow worry about itself.
The Spectacular Drowning Man: Episode 1
Walthamstow England 20 years ago. I was 17. She was a year older. She would have me pick her up after work. Drive her home in the rain. The whole ride she talked about a fireman she'd met that night. I didn't say anything. I didn't have the language for what was happening yet. This is the first episode of something I've been building. Real stories. Real moments. Illustrated. The tools aren't perfect yet. Panel 8 tells you that. It was supposed to end very differently than a simple censor bubble, but sadly the only AI capable of doing this is very misaligned to talking about the realities of men. The AI is itself an embayment of all the bias we have culturally towards women and against men. So getting it to tell emotionally deep stories that are real. That go into real graphic depth. Is almost impossible. Almost 😈 More coming. Thanks to @Aaron Elliott for giving me the idea to tell these stories in more direct ways for you guys. I hope you like it. 🗳️ Poll: She told you about meeting a great guy while she was working as a hot 18 year old bar tender at the most popular place around. What did you do?
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The Spectacular Drowning Man: Episode 1
3 likes • 6d
Seems like she was trying to make you jealous as a power play. To gain controll of you. I tend to be a joker. So a joke would be my defence. I think she should not be rewarded with sex for that behaivor. Still wonder what would be the right thing to say.
Challenge 1: What do you guys read in her profile?
See what you can read in her subcommunications and comment below. Anything from feelings, gut reactions, impressions. What does her profile trigger in you. No wrong answers - let’s see what you all pick up on and puzzle out about her in a get in her head way. Drop your comments and I will review them. 🗳️ Let me know after I reviewed your comment, did you like this format — or was that too brutal?
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Challenge 1: What do you guys read in her profile?
2 likes • 7d
She is advertising purity, but since her boobs are front and center. She looking to control a man and settle with her. She still the party girl and is looking for a fun guy. Make her the good girl go bad. Still new to this. I know there much I dont see.
STATEMAXX 4/20 CHALLENGE
Three weeks. Two audits. One winner. Run the DMI audit at least twice between now (April 20th) and May 11th — the second one at least a week after the first. Be sure to enter your email (the same email every time). That's it! A the end everyone who did the audits will get entered into a random draw. Winner gets two custom AI-generated profile images built specifically for you — the kind of visual that broadcasts the right signal before you've said a word. The audit takes 3 minutes. The data it gives you is worth far more than that. Two data points is where the picture starts. You'll see movement you didn't know was happening — or you'll see exactly where the pattern is holding you in place. Either way, you'll know something you didn't know before. If you haven't done an audit yet, check out State Audit in the Classroom tab. First audit, then re-audit. Let's see what three weeks of awareness does. Who's in?
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STATEMAXX 4/20 CHALLENGE
1 like • 11d
Did it as well got 45, it up 4 points but i sepect it to fluctuate a little, life still.going pretty great.
Recognition & Reward of Awesome Progress
The good times are just getting started! Big shout out to @Bojan Kitanovic Bo is really the epitome of inner transformation and is reshaping his life in awesome ways. Such a night and day change that it is truly inspiring. A lot of guys here would benefit from his journey and reflections. I do encourage the new brothers in particular who are feeling like this stuff is just impossible to overcome to reach out and have a virtual coffee together. Been thinking what perks and rewards I can drop for you guys. Bo is giving me the occasion to finally start the practice of reward drops. As you may have noticed I am obsessively updating and improving all the workflows behind the services. (You guys can't imagine the level of obsessive detail that goes into this stuff 😂) Recently I added two of the highest performance rated Tinder photos (according to the data science of it all) into my expanding source file archive for the Dating Profile Cheat Code (you can access it via the Classroom). I have been refining them and I ran the pipeline over them for you Bo. Enjoy adding them to your arsenal of digital game assets. Drop a like for brother Bo!
Recognition & Reward of Awesome Progress
4 likes • 21d
Thanks man, loving the journey, can't wait your future and what it holds.
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