I think that we all follow some sort of code, whether we realize it or not. Most of what we live by is borrowed: from religions, communities, external influences, and only rarely, from ourselves. For good or bad, it shapes us. And it is one of the greatest practices, if not the greatest, to evaluate what code we operate with. So I ask you: What are three principles you refuse to compromise? Here are mine: 1. Hold no wisdom as absolute. Use data, test and iterate, no bias, no emotion, and no traditions in the pursuit of truth. 2. There is no savior. No one, Metaphysical or real, distant or close can redeem you. Only you. 3. Excellence in all areas. Body, mind, and business must keep growing.

I have something that has been sitting on my mind: What should a man do when he feels that he isn't achieving his goals. For me, I started to work towards this big dream and I am really making progress. However I am feeling that I am not doing as much as I am capable, and the worst part is that I can't really do much about it. I am in 12 grade and I really need to focus on school, but at the same time I want to move closer towards my goals. What advice do you give on this, I am really curious 🤔

This is the first big win of 2026 for me—and a much-needed one. Background: The past few weeks haven’t been good for me socially. I’d hit a plateau. All kinds of excuses were creeping in, and I wasn’t able to talk at my full capacity. I also had some personal and professional issues to deal with, so this win matters. In the afternoon, I went for a walk and saw two foreigners who were probably doing a photoshoot. I wanted to talk but figured I’d do it while coming back. On my way back, I saw them sitting, and I complimented them as I passed by. I got a simple “thank you,” but it felt cold. In the evening, after the gym, I went to my usual place. I complimented a guy, talked to him for two minutes, and it was a good start. Then I asked another guy for directions, which helped keep the social momentum going. Then I saw a girl sitting near a bench. I went up to her and asked a question: “If you got a superpower for a day, what would you choose?” This started a conversation, and we talked for five minutes. It was a fun convo. After that, I saw a girl eating something and wanted to talk to her, but I decided to wait until she finished. Once she was done, I went up to her, complimented her hair, and started the conversation. She said she’s an influencer with 200,000 followers on Instagram. I was surprised because the way she spoke wasn’t like a typical influencer. We talked about spirituality, career, places, and a lot of other things. We talked for 45 minutes. I got her Instagram, and since I had to leave, I said goodbye. Before that, we made plans to meet tomorrow.

Tommorow I'm going to a New Year's party and there will be a girl I like but I am not sure she does too. Any tips on approaching her and being as subtle as posible?

I HOPE EVERYONE HAS A Happy New Year , anyone got any good new years resolutions they would like to share ?? I am going to start walking everyday with my fiance, and I want to quit smoking, and try and be more active and supportive on social media.