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Parent Method Booklet?
@Catherine Hickem @Morgan Sampson Where is the “parent method booklet” Catherine referred to in Module 8.3 please?
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I waa referring to the 2 part parenting plan
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Sorry for the confusion
Life Happens...
I find myself in a boot because I broke a bone in my foot. Not exactly something I want to deal with right now but life happens and we often have to deal with things we didn't plan. I handle things like this pretty well most of the time but sometimes, I get weary and have less patience with myself. We are often generous with everyone but ourselves and I want to be sure that as you enter this Mother's Day weekend, you show respect to the woman in the mirror. Treat her like a best friend. She deserves all the love and kindness she can get.
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@Paula Elmer Thank you. Paula.
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@Debra Garcia I appreciate that so much.
Slight Breakthrough
Now that the first layer of communication has opened with my daughter and I , even thought it's been superficial. This past Sunday, she shared that she has been precepting a student who is studying to be a echo tech like herself. She said, Mom it makes me very anxious to do my work and teach her, it gets me off track. I listened . Told her I understood. Shared with her a recent experience I had with a new nurse I was precepting, and I got nervous too because we were busy.
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Good for you, Doria! You did what she needed - you listened and you were empathic! Keep up the good work.
On the road with ears!
Warning…This is a long one! I am not offended if you don’t read all. My middle daughter and I are in Orlando. I am so grateful for the modules 1-3 and Catherine lecture Tuesday May 5th! Day 1 “I put my ears on”. My daughter stressed with her work that she literally arrived at our long planned Disney restbit “unhinged” and disrespectful to the workers at the airport when she picked me up. She had an arrogant, I deserve everything attitude. We got into the car and she continued ranting. I just paused until the rant was over. Then I just parroted back “It sounds like to me your trip here was very stressful and you didn’t stop a long way and make sure that you had meals or even water am I right?” she agreed. Then I said how about we solve that problem first what are you hungry for? Day 2 As we we’re entering Universal Epoch Studios, She became unhinged again. This time the rant went in for longer and when it was over I paused again. This time I was box breathing because of the rant was personal. ( ignoring the personal insults of my adopted 33-year-old) What came out was, “ so what I hear you saying is that your job is so stressful that you feel like you have no place of peace?” she said yes, then I responded with “ Have you considered what options you’d like to take with that?” she calmed down and I did my best to give her space to think. She spun up two more times in the park. And I used the same tactic. I did eventually fail. And at the end of the evening, when she dressed me down for in the line to the bathroom “Didn’t you just go to the bathroom 15 minutes ago?” So I lost my resolve at 10pm and said “there’s no need to embarrass me in front of this line of people.” And I walked to find another restroom. And instead of following along behind. She left the park, while I was in the restroom. Without any text message or telling me where she went. It was closing time and she abandoned me. With no way to get to the hotel and not even an address for it. She finally answered the text message and told me she went to the car. I had to ask where the car was and with no signs in the parking she to get walk back to find me.
On the road with ears!
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I am so happy for you, Lisa! What a great example of pausing, listening, reframing, and courage. You inspired us all.
🎉 Everyone help me give a warm Thrive & Connect welcome to Vicki! 💛
@Vicki Schwartz, we’re so happy you’ve joined us. You’ve just stepped into a community built on real connection, genuine support, and forward momentum — a place where people show up for each other without judgment and with open hearts. Whatever season brought you here, know this: you do not have to figure it all out alone 🤝 Inside Thrive & Connect, you’ll find:✨ Honest conversations with people who truly get it✨ Encouragement when life feels heavy or uncertain✨ Practical tools, ideas, and support you can actually apply in everyday life✨ A community that celebrates progress — even the small wins Let’s get you plugged in 👇 Vicki, when you’re ready, we’d love to hear:• Where are you joining us from?• What inspired you to become part of the community?• What’s one area of life you’d love support, clarity, or momentum in right now? And if you’re open to sharing…👉 What would a meaningful “win” look like for you over the next 30 days?
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Welcome Vicki! I am delighted you have joined our PACT community. What a great group of people! Let us know how we can best suppprt you. You are in the right place!
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Catherine Hickem
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Founder of Parenting Adult Children Today (PACT). My mission is to help parents redefine their success by how they show up in the relationship.

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