Your latest relationship just ended ๐ญ, or you can't seem to stop thinking about your ex from two years ago ๐ตโ๐ซ โย even though you hate yourself for doing so ๐คฆ๐พโโ๏ธ. The relationship actually wasn't that awesome...they were wonderful except they weren't. ๐ค But you can't stop stalking their socials or looking at the new person plastered all over their stories. ๐
Your friends mean well, but the best they can tell you is "it's their loss" or "if they wanted to they would!" ๐ฅด Sure, sometimes that applies, but you don't want to repeat the mistakes of previous relationships...and hot takes on TikTok and Facebook groups aren't doing it for you. You need someone who will tell you the unvarnished truth โย based on facts โ and push you out of unhealthy patterns. ๐ฉ
Hi, I'm Your Rude Fairy Godmother! ๐๐พโโ๏ธ
I'm here to give you that straight no chaser relationship advice you need. ๐ Maybe you've seen me give unvarnished advice in Facebook dating groups, or maybe you stumbled across my TikTok account. I'm an INTJ woman, and if you know your Myers-Briggs personality types, you know that means I'm a uniquely logic-driven personality type. And as a woman, that means there's less than 1% of my gendered personality type in the world.
Does it mean I don't have feelings? Absolutely not! ๐
I feel quite deeply actually. But...after I dry my tears, I take a logic over feelings approach and take care of business. ๐ And it means that even if I'm loving deeply, I recognize when it's time to course correct or walk away from relationships and scenarios that don't serve me. โ๐พ Is it easy? No. But it also means I don't entertain situations that passed their expiration date.
This group is here to help you stop leaning on poor attachment styles to justify your or your (ex) partner's behavior, to stop dating potential, to not take back exes without real change, and to build and vocalize boundaries that you'll actually enforce. In this group, you'll lean into your strength. ๐ช๐พYou'll find community in others who no longer want to settle for anything just to say they're boo'd up.
But...come with your big-kid undies on, ๐๐พโโ๏ธbecause I give straight-no-chaser relationship advice.