Burning questions? Need to decode a partner's (or ex's) behaviors? This is the place to ask it. Nothing is embarrassing, and it's a judgement-free zone — even if my reply is straight forward. There are a few housekeeping rules for posting on this page: 1. Stay on topic as this space is ONLY for relationship questions...not phishing expeditions. 2. PLEASE no "initials?!🤪" comments — this is not that type of group. Get the info you need but if you suspect your partner of cheating you can get those answers elsewhere. 3. If you post about situationships...be prepared for VERY tough "straight no chaser" advice. I think they're terrible — especially for women — so be forewarned. 4. Off topic posts will be deleted. 😏

Your latest relationship just ended 😭, or you can't seem to stop thinking about your ex from two years ago 😵‍💫 — even though you hate yourself for doing so 🤦🏾‍♀️. The relationship actually wasn't that awesome...they were wonderful except they weren't. 🤔 But you can't stop stalking their socials or looking at the new person plastered all over their stories. 👀 Your friends mean well, but the best they can tell you is "it's their loss" or "if they wanted to they would!" 🥴 Sure, sometimes that applies, but you don't want to repeat the mistakes of previous relationships...and hot takes on TikTok and Facebook groups aren't doing it for you. You need someone who will tell you the unvarnished truth — based on facts — and push you out of unhealthy patterns. 😩 Hi, I'm Your Rude Fairy Godmother! 🙋🏾‍♀️ I'm here to give you that straight no chaser relationship advice you need. 😏 Maybe you've seen me give unvarnished advice in Facebook dating groups, or maybe you stumbled across my TikTok account. I'm an INTJ woman, and if you know your Myers-Briggs personality types, you know that means I'm a uniquely logic-driven personality type. And as a woman, that means there's less than 1% of my gendered personality type in the world. Does it mean I don't have feelings? Absolutely not! 😅 I feel quite deeply actually. But...after I dry my tears, I take a logic over feelings approach and take care of business. 😎 And it means that even if I'm loving deeply, I recognize when it's time to course correct or walk away from relationships and scenarios that don't serve me. ✋🏾 Is it easy? No. But it also means I don't entertain situations that passed their expiration date. This group is here to help you stop leaning on poor attachment styles to justify your or your (ex) partner's behavior, to stop dating potential, to not take back exes without real change, and to build and vocalize boundaries that you'll actually enforce. In this group, you'll lean into your strength. 💪🏾You'll find community in others who no longer want to settle for anything just to say they're boo'd up.