This week’s piece is on refusal. Not as a reaction, not as burnout, but as something structural. Most of what we’re carrying isn’t random. It’s expected, normalized, and unevenly distributed. And without refusal, it doesn’t change. Not because we don’t care, but because we keep holding it. This one goes deeper into: what’s actually happening, why it keeps landing on women, and what shifts when we stop carrying it the same way. Read it when you have space. And if something in it lands, you don’t have to process it alone. https://substack.com/home/post/p-194691234

Some spaces require you to shrink a little. To filter what you say. To simplify what you see. To decide what’s “worth it” to bring up and what isn’t. And over time, that becomes normal. This piece is about what that actually does and what changes when you stop trying to make every space work. If you’ve ever felt like you have to adjust yourself depending on where you are, this will likely land. Read about it here: https://darlenechangemakerhq.substack.com/p/not-every-space-is-built-to-hold?r=5pn6i2

I don’t separate how I live my life from what I stand for. Travel, everyday moments, political awareness, it all exists together. I wrote about that here: https://darlenechangemakerhq.substack.com/p/you-can-carry-a-keffiyeh-and-a-boarding?r=5pn6i2

Since it’s International Women’s Day, I wanted to share another piece from my Substack that connects to what we’ve been talking about here this week. We’ve already talked about how burnout isn’t personal and how some communities drain women instead of supporting them. This article looks at another piece of the puzzle: what burnout actually costs all of us when politically aware women are pushed past their limits. When women who care deeply about justice burn out, movements lose experience, insight, leadership, and momentum. Burnout is not just personal. It is political. Here’s the article: https://darlenechangemakerhq.substack.com/p/what-burnout-costs-us-collectively

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